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- My network seems to be really strained to falling apart, a network of people that I've had for a long time. One group of friends I let go of because it got really toxic. It seems like everything is going at once now. Anyway, one of the people in...
- Well I had mentioned earlier that I was trying to get back out there and start dating. I went to a speed dating event earlier this week which was really fun. I chose three people on the list that I might be interested in. None of them chose me...
- So as I've been going through therapy, I've had to reexamine all of my relationships and my career as well. I have been ending/winding down a very long-term "friendship" with people that I thought were really my friends. They were like a second...
- I'm curious what works for you in your recovery, I'm interested to know if ppl want to share. For me, these things help:swimmingpracticing on my language apppeer support meetingssometimes warmlinesmeditation classshort road tripsmedssome DBT...
- One good thing is that after I was done with hospital IOP, we can go to peer support for free once a week in person. I really clicked with the other people in my IOP cohort and kind of became friends with them. The peer support leaders there are...
- I have a really bad relationship with my brother. I do not like him at all. A previous therapist and a few other people thought he was a sociopath. It's possible. I know even sociopaths need help, but I really don't want to make it my problem.I...
- I feel like it's hard to find a therapist that really knows what to do and is good. The one that I had before was dropped by insurance and another one that I had and liked really feels like I should have nothing to do with my family, which for me is...
- I'm curious about peoples' opinions on psychological projection. Do you think it is possible to dislike something in someone without it being a reflection of something that you don't like about yourself, as in, 'you spot it you got it'? When I...
- I'm *trying* to date again. I made a couple of online accounts. I haven't had a date or a relationship for a while, but I'm learning what are my pet peeves and what are probably places where I need boundaries. It seems like a lot of people (in...
- I had applied to at least 20 paid interships for this summer. I was rejected for every single one. Another three rejection emails came this week. Studied really hard for some of the interviews. Was ghosted for one of them. The disappointment was...
- It seems like there is a sweet spot between communicating too much and hardly not enough. I'm discouraged, I've been ghosted 3-4 times now by people I was really interested in. (online) On the other hand, I've had a couple men who come across as...
- Just curious what people here think of online dating. It has been pretty meh for me. I usually do better IRL. I have found that recently trying to do dating online made my depression far worse. Seeing people leaving you on read, not...
- So yeah, like the title says, I was booted from a meetup. Hard to believe, I know, as meetups are mostly public, and anyone can go to them. I used to think back in the day, "I wonder if anyone has ever been kicked out of something like this. That...
- I had a really difficult decision to make. I'm in a Master's program to study technology, and am hoping to create a career building technologies, especially educational technologies. I am nearly done with the program and aim to graduate in fall. ...
- I'm coming to the realization that I don't have to respond to everything. Not every stimulus deserves a response. I don't have to drop everything because someone is having another crisis-again. I said no to a social invitation today because I just...