I feel bad, a friend that I've known for a long time really wants to go out with me.  I used to be interested in him like eight years ago.  He led me on for about six to nine months, until I gave up on it. When I gave up on it, the tables turned and then he got obsessive toward me. Prior to that he treated me like an option, made a lot of excuses, and said he was not ready for a relationship but was really dating someone else.

I've run into him at get togethers.  At least twice he's cornered me in the parking lot to 'discuss his feelings.' I told him point blank that I was not into it anymore.

I ran into him again this weekend, and it happened again.  He followed me out to the parking lot and tried to corner me for a private conversation.  I said I had to leave and then promptly got into my car.

I don't know why, I feel like I "should" like him, that I "should" be attracted to him, he's nice, good job, cute.  IDK, there is nothing there. His pushiness scares me.  I know it's a boundary thing, I just can't get my feelings back, I don't know what it is. He overwhelms me.