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- My H of 20 years has been telling me that he will leave me at the end of the year if I don't get my act together ie: Become more emotionally available to him. He says he can't stand it any more. I understand his frustration, I do struggle with being...
- Hi, just seeking some advice from someone who has been thru this:I struggle with a number of issues including anxiety and CoD,I admit that often I am difficult to live with because of these problemsBut I am trying my best to understand and work...
- Hi, just seeking some advice from someone who has been thru this:I struggle with a number of issues including anxiety and CoD. I admit that often I am difficult to live with because of these problems but I am trying my best to understand and work...
- I would appreciate some honest input about how I am feeling. My H and I are trying to sort out our problems but it is hard, hard work for little, if any gain. We don't see eye to eye about the issues in our marriage, we blame each other, hurt each...
- Do you think it is ever acceptable for a husband to yell and swear at his wife and tell her off?I called my H on his behaviour recently on the advice of a counsellor and now he is angry with me for 'complaining' about his behaviour. He sees that his...
- I have been married for 20 years. 18 years ago, my husband lost his father. At the time I was pretty messed up and whilst I helped him in practical ways, moving in with his parents and helping nurse his father til he died, I wasn't able to offer...
- Hi. Today, according to my H, I am immature and need to grow up. I am wholly responsible for our marriage being as bad as it is. I am hard to live with and solely to blame for the lack of intimacy in our marriage. I am to blame for him blowing up...
- Been trying to talk to H about why I feel anxious in this relationship, ie my anxiety comes from anticipating his anger and cruel comments. He said, no, my anxiety is a result of my childhood abuse and is nothing to do with him. Yesterday he came...
- I know many of you are familiar with my situation, please bear with me as I am trying to decide whether to leave or stay. I am stressed to the point of ill health over my marriage. My H is constantly expressing his dissatisfaction with our...
- Just suggested to my H that we work on the way we communicate to each other ie, I don't withdraw and he doesn't get angry and accuse me.So, he got angry and told me that I was the 'architect of his destruction'He tells me that I need to help him...
- My 12 year old son is a sensitive, bright, witty, imaginative boy. He also internalized his feelings and has difficulty expressing them. He struggles to make friends at school as he finds it hard to relate to his peers. He relates well to adults and...
- Today my H tells me that I am the abuser in our relationship because I am passive and withdraw from him, don't share my feelings readily, dont tell him when I am angry and basically keep it all inside and withhold my self from him. I see that this...
- My H has yet again taken a day that should have been special for me and turned it into a horrible experience. Friday evening I was out shopping with the the kids and he rang me and asked if I could buy some gifts for the kids to give me for mothers...
- Just wondering what anyone's response would be in my situation. My H is always making nasty little comments about me, for example, this morning he told me I was 'barking mad' because I didn't understand something he was trying to tell me. His words...
- I'm a bit worried, my H tells me I am crazy, like mentally ill. I know I am codependent in a big way, and have issues with self esteem and anxiety but does that make someone insane? I know a lot of my problems are due to codependence because when I...