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- I am quite disturbed about something that happened yesterday.My husband was trying to concentrate on some online instructions hewas reading. Our 3 kids were I the room playing with Lego and making a bit of noise. He tells them to please be quiet so...
- This is going round and round on my head..My husband and I have a lot of history, plenty of hurt and all the usual baggage. He often gets very down and depressed over what his life and our relationship could have been. At those times he tells me...
- My washing machine finally gave up the ghost yesterday after a long illness. My husband went out today and bought a very nice, expensive new washer. I was excited and actually started feeling a little guilty for being angry with him. So I am helping...
- My husband returns tomorrow from a four day work trip. While he has been away I have been struck by just how much happier and less stressed I am when he is not here. I know that when he walks in he door I will start to feelanxious, ill at ease,...
- Does anyone have the experience of 'being told'By this I mean:Being told that you are doing things wrong and this is the way you do it...everything, no matter how trivial eg how to wash my hair, how to clean my toothbrush, how to drive, how to...
- Hi. I just need to write down how I am feeling.I don't feel any love for my husbandHe knows it deep down and gets frustrated and angry His anger turns to a torrent of accusationI see his angry face and hear over and over his negative comments about...
- What does anyone think of this? My husband and I are trying to sort out some of the problems in our marriage. Over the years there has been a lot of hurt on both sides and a lot of stuff as yet unresolved. He says that I never come to him and talk...
- Does anyone start to feel anxious if things have been going well for a couple of weeks. Then partner starts to look and sound a bit down or removed or something and a kind of sixth sense kicks in... We are heading for the inevitable ..I start to...
- Please help, I just don't understand. My husband and I have been trying to talk thru some of the problems in our marriage. He says that I never initiate conversations and this tends to make him frustrated and angry so I thought I would try to start...
- Aargh... My husband has been wonderfully kind and nice to me this weekend. Why can't I be happy and just accept it. Why do I wait in anxiety and fear of the next time he gets 'down' Could this really be the turning point? Can I trust him? No answers...
- Hi,does anyone have any experience with bipolar disorder either in themselves or their partner?My husband has what seems to me as dramatic mood swings. Several of our friends and acquaintances( including 2 with medical training) have suggested that...
- Hi, I am trying to understand myself and why i have done the things I have so as to grow and (hopefully) stop making the same mistakes.I grew up in an emotionally abusive family. My mum suffered from depression and was periodically suicidal. I...
- Hi, I am having a real struggle to trust my husband. We have the standard history; he gets frustrated and angry with me because our relationship is not as close or intimate as he would like it to be. I get hurt and scared by his angry words and...
- Hi, I am new here. Just needed to ask the question because I live in a very tense and stressful marriage and can't seem to find any answers. 19 years of history which I won't go into the basically there is an ongoing issue between me and my husband....
- How DO you detach from feeling guilty and responsible for someone else's feelings without just withdrawing and being cold.Can't seem to be able to do this one.My husband feels that I am cold and uncaring but I am so caught up in his feelings/...