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- Went thru the usual saga the last couple of weekends. H angry and frustrated with me because of the lack of closeness in our M. I counted up 6 hours of lectures last weekend which left me totally exhausted. this weekend he tells me how fed up he is...
- Having major problems in my marriage and starting to recognize a pattern. My H is always frustrated and angry about the 'lack of closeness' in our M. He spends endless hours talking/ lecturing me about it, telling me what my problems are, what I...
- My husbands main complaint about me is that I don't open up and share thoughts and feelings with him, that I protect myself from him by holding back emotionally. He sees this as a fault of mine. He is right, I do hold back from him because I don't...
- Hi everyoneWondering what you do when your partner pushes your buttonsThis is a minor issue but I find myself getting quite disturbed and angry about it...I have a toothache and the only time I can get to see a dentist is early Saturday morning...
- Hi everyone, I would appreciate your take on this...Last nite my H tells me how he is hurt and frustrated by the lack of intimacy in our M. By intimacy he means trust, emotional connection, talking etc. Tells me how I don't support him, don't care...
- Today my H makes an offhanded comment to me that although I have been scared of him all our marriage, he is not a scary or intimating man. Read.. It is just your perceptionI feel like my experience had just been invalidated. It leaves me thinking am...
- Hi, I wrote this in my journal todayHe is not my God...Not my God...Not my God...I am not defined by what he thinks of me or says about meI exist outside this relationshipI am a mother, a daughter, a friend to manyI am not who he says I amI am not...
- I wrote a journal entry just now about a holiday I had with my H and how hurt I was by his words and his behaviour . It was devastating and I did have a cry about it but I am getting caught up on the fact that I know that he was angry over something...
- I had a heart to heart with a close friend and she asked me a very pertinent question 'what positive things are you getting out or your relationship with your husband?' In all honesty, I could only say 'financial security' This sounds like a...
- Hi, I'm back, still trying to nut the whole thing out.. bear with me..My H says that I take offense too readily, this apparently is a fault of mine. It usually comes about after I get upset over some personal comment he has made about me or simply...
- Hi everyoneI'm still going over and over in my mind whether to stay and keep trying or whether it is better for us all to leave.Since the incident last weekend when he got angry and yelled at our son, I have been seriously considering how much we...
- Ever wonder who you really are?Over the years my husband has called me CrazyMentally illDysfunctionalThe bitch who ruined his lifeSelfishA moronAutisticA bad wifeUntrustworthyUnsupportiveUncaringAn ice maidenControllingManipulativeThe list goes on...
- Anyone else find it slightly amusing that at the bottom of every page of the abuse forum there is a button that says 'report abuse' ? Thought I might get one of these installed on my wall at home...Sorry, totally frivolous..
- Me again... Just need a little advice about what to do nextMy husband has told me that if we are to move on in our relationship, I need to reconcile with him, ie talk to him about everything I have done to him so we can work it thru. As I have said...
- What is a healthy relationship like anyway? Been in this one for almost 20 years and nothing to compare it to. Does it involve yelling? I can't stand myself or the kids being yelled at but is this my issue? Do healthy people put up with being...