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- We are dating each other again.... The ex fiancé.... We broke up in January. We've texted and talked. I am still very in love with him. I will say that every relationship comes with its challenges and this is no different. He is working on himself...
- I'm into year 4 by a month. My daughter is 17. Raising teenaged girls is hard. They are just as reckless as boys but they are girls. I worried about how I would handle it with boyfriends. I'm 5'3" and weigh 110 pounds. But I'm still a parent. (Both...
- I think I may be depressed... Just passed the 3 year mark. I've worked very hard to "be" in this life as a single woman, raising my teen daughter and filling the other roles I have. I find that I'm not very excited about life after all or very...
- Ex fiancé is coming back around. I've actually seen him a few times since we broke up in January. Last Sunday, we had dinner together. He told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship when we were together because he needed to prove to himself...
- I'm back out there! I've learned a lot and I'm ready to get out and meet some new people! I feel more secure in what I want and what I have to offer. I'm eager! And willing to take my time. I have a date scheduled for Friday night. I'm on Match and...
- Every once in a while, life grabs a hold of me and shakes me. Recently, that happened. Part of our grieving process (Sharon has brought this up a billion times) is discovering what makes "me" happy. Recently, I was hurt so badly that I began to make...
- The interesting thing about pain is that it's a great motivator to change. Every day is a new opportunity to be something new. I've taken up a serious exercise program "Camp Gladiator" which I attend 3-4 x per week from 5-6 am. I meditate daily now....
- One of the friends I made as a widow, early on, really had an impact on me. We discussed the deaths of our husbands and how we interpreted things. For instance, the headstone. The name doesn't really tell who they were. It's kind of like a label......
- Trying to regain balance in my life and breathe. I am still hurting from the break up and little reminders get me down. I miss HIM. We aren't talking anymore because I made the statement I wouldn't contact him, he could contact me. He hasn't. A...
- For all the support, the love, the prayers, the sorry's and the GOOD advice! I've decided to do exactly what was suggested to me here and just allow myself to recover from this break up. Allow myself to feel sad and work through what I need to work...
- It's taken me some time to understand... But here goes... From what I understand, when we met, he wanted a "happy, healthy marriage". And I was ripe for picking. He wooed me. He proposed after 6 months. We were engaged for 6 months. From what I...
- I can tell I am at the end of my grief journey. I know who I am and feel joy. I've accepted myself and my life and embrace the trials I face and opportunities each day. The last 3 years have been a phase of personal growth for me. Fall down, get...
- Valentine's Day is next Sunday! I challenged myself last year to see it in a New light! I looked for somebody that I could show love to and make a difference in their life! I chose a 97 year old bedridden friend. She was my Valentine! I loved her so...
- My fiancé and I broke up. He is my 2nd love. My relationship with him renewed my hope and faith in God. I needed to step back to truly appreciate him. We are taking a break and I have been praying like crazy for us! Ironically, it's at this point,...
- We all need messages of hope and truth. My dude and I are taking a 2 week break from all communication. ( 12 more days to go.) Its hard because I miss him incredibly. We broke up January 16. I didn't anticipate the pain that I felt. I didn't...