PinkArzora
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- I am a binge drinker, typically every three to four days. When I start I don't stop. I feel dull pain where my liver is, sometimes where my pancreas is. I go to meetings now and then, I am nearly finished with my RN degree. I know acutely what...
- I was on this site last year when my hb left me for a "girl" half my age. He was such an a-hole, calling cops over my texting ( no threats, just rel't back-n-forth ).... He moved out, then spiralled and lost job, girl, apt and moved back in as...
- My son is 5 and both his preschool and kindergarten teachers have said he has characteristics of ADHD. He is unruly at home and has to make noise constantly, especially if I or his dad are watching something we want. If he watches "his" show he's...
- I'm in a funk today. My dad left across the country until January, and he's my best friend and helps me with the kids, surprises me with a full tank of gas, etc. My ex sold his Mustang to generate a little money as he got a second ticket in two...
- It occurs to me when I read these posts how important it is to be validated by our exes. The world has millions and billion(s)(?) of people, yet our egos fixate on this one indifferent person to give us confidence. I often ask myself how much of my...
- My ex lost his job this morning (officially) after 6 years. He's actually happy about it as the managers didn't treat him the way he felt they should, though he was able to work more hours and get paid more than someone with his education generally...
- I guess I'll preface this by saying that I've had some wine tonight...some over-priced Pinot Noir and Australian White, but I digress. I had a day at the hospital, as a student, and witnessed the kind of love I hope to have. I met a wife who cares...
- I'm curious where most of you stand on the shared holiday topic. On one hand I feel the ex forfeited his right to go trick-or-treating as a family, or share Thanksgiving, Christmas morn, etc.., by breaking off our marriage and having an affair. Am I...
- My ex left me for a woman 15 years younger who models lingerie on FB. He's not with her, but after calling me fat and ugly he rubs my nose in the fact he's been with other incredibly hot young things while I sit with the kids every night and wish I...
- I've posted about this a few weeks ago, but my ex's cage fight is tonight. He secured free passes for me to see him. It's his first fight ever, he's 33, and up against a guy who's won 7 straight in the heavy weight division.A little background: he...
- O.K... so my ex, in his early mid-life crisis, bought a Mustang, had an affair w/ a 20 year old, and started working out heavily to be a cage fighter at 33. I won't get into how assinine all that may be, but his relationship ended with this other...
- My ex was not a serial cheater. He told me he'd let me know if there was someone else, which he abruptly did and immediately moved out. I could tell he had detached himself emotionally for sometime. There was a point that I had seen a "Curb Your...
- I wanted to say that I've really been helped by this group during such a painful period in my life. Thanx! I wanted to add, though, that reading these stories of cheating, abusive, dysfunctional spouses terrifies me that I'm gonna end up in one of...
- I just want to say that when you're going through a break-up and it's all you think about, it's also all you talk about. I remember 13 years ago when my previous relationship was floundering, I was in NYC, going to awesome parties, museums, clubs......
- I know I shouldn't even look, but I saw on my STBX's Facebook page a plea to his mistress (she's 20, he's 33, and she dumped him on his birthday late August after I got hold of her # and texted pics of our kids and called her a homewrecker) that he...