I wanted to say that I've really been helped by this group during such a painful period in my life. Thanx! I wanted to add, though, that reading these stories of cheating, abusive, dysfunctional spouses terrifies me that I'm gonna end up in one of those all over again. The ones that really terrify me are the "I was so in love and delusional until I discovered..." I realize people in the healthy, "We've been in love for 50 years and it just gets better" are not posting here, but DAMN, how do we avoid those traps and those psychic vampires that consume our life forces and throw us away like the wrapper to a candy bar once they got what they wanted? Seriously, the ability of monsters in disguise to perpetuate an illusion until you're in a place of utter vulnerability is mind-boggling. I always ask myself what was going on with me to not pick up on the warning signs? I can romanticize the fuck out of anything, and it blinds me in choosing a mate. Any thoughts?
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