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Status: "One of the greatest freedoms is when you realize what you can't control." Michael J Fox
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The Power Of DisengagementPlaying Mind Games For better or worse, many people have been raised to believe that communicating in an honest and open way will not get them what they want. They have...
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I'm really excited to do some gift buying and giving for Christmas. It is unlike me to wait so long to make purchases, for financial reasons, and due to time constraints I'll be doing it tomorrow...
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I am experiencing being the recipient of a lot of messages to have grace with myself. I appreciate this as I tend to not recognize when I'm being hard on myself, I had made progress in this area...
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I'm needing to express more kindness, patience, consideration and taking responsibility in my life. I am needing to have clearer communication and taking more care with the boundaries I set. I am...
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I went to work today at a temp job where I worked recently and didn't have computer access yet, that is where I first found DS so I really missed being here today. I have had a pretty good week so...
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I told my sponsor I have seen my ex a few times. I don't like getting her involved in this as it is so messy such drama and not good for me to be in this situation. I ran into him at cafe and...
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Today I realized how much I have backslidden as far as having recovery in my 12 step program in my loss of serenity and lack of working a program for codependency. I am still clean and sober. I...
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I come home to a dozen roses and cry a little, it's not even our anniversary because we're not even together! I had told him, I don't want to get back together and break up again, why can't we just...
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Today would be our 1 year anniversary (as byfrnd-girlfrnd). I suggested dinner "maybe" even though we're not back together, the day of communication a few days ago was a "date". Now I'm seeing...
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I apologized to Dad for yelling at him, for getting angry and told him I love him. I went and saw my ex, thinking I could help, got drawn into a full day of just getting some communication out of...
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I owe Dad an apology even though he was out of line, I was a bit harsh in pointing it out to him and so I too was out of line. I need my 12 step meetings and I'm not going regularly now, it's a bad...
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I've officially gotten out of the habit of going to as many meetings as I'm used to since I've gotten in recovery. This breakup has really shaken me. It was never even official, we argued then...
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Well I did talk to my ex and find out he's not eating, talking to anyone or going to meetings or working. I can't save him. We are in contact and he is being sweet, if crazy. Anyway I told him...
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my exboyfrnd & i talked today for the 1st time in 3 1/2 wks besides him showing up thanksgiving. he asked me to dinner tonite and last night, I stall, turn him down. i am feeling less angry and...
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It's tough to hear from exboyfriend, I don't respond 2 days now (after 3 days of responding). I am feeling sick inside to get a glimpse of the world he assumes he shares with me (I do not share...
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