Joanieslegacy
Status: Just want to get over the hump and feel normal again...
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- I was wondering how your time with your abusers has changed you both negatively and positively?I find though most of the changes have been negative, I can still find a positive. Negative: 1. Lack of trust..big time.2. Inability to no obsess over...
- Hi , I was wondering what fellow members here have found to help you with feelings of depression, anger, worthlessness and just an all over feeling of it really does not matter? I have cut off contact with my abusers mainly, even deactivating my...
- I got about 4 hours sleep last night due to a misunderstanding that led to my Canadian friend calling my younger brother and freaking everyone out. I am not sure why my friend did that as she should of talked with me first if she thought I was so...
- I was just wondering how many of you are able to not let the things that have happened to you and your hopelessness not show on social sites?I have decided to deactivate Facebook as it seems it just depresses me more. I am either reaching out to...
- I followed through with no contact on both my exes, one was from about 3 years ago and has never left me alone if he was able to get my phone number. I changed it once and due to my naiveity, I gave it to his ex wife to be able to keep in touch with...
- I have stuck with NC so I should be feeling strong not so depressed like this. I have changed my phone number which I thought would make me feel better, because that was a HUGE step for me. I even was getting packages, letters and cards from his...
- Ok, this is going to come across as really weird and for that I apologize, but I am feeling as if I will never get out from under my last ex. I had mentioned how his mother contacted me by mailing a package to my fathers address with a letter (after...
- I have to go to my exes hometown this evening and tommorrow to attend SATOP classes from an accident I was in back in August and although the last text I recieved from him BEFORE I had my phone number changed told me he would be out of town a couple...
- Sometimes I write poetry to vent/journel all the emotions I shove down inside. Most of my poetry is dark and while I don't mind sharing it, it most likely is not helpful to anyone who is already hurting and I don't want to upset or trigger anyone...
- Gifts from his mom, and letters..fb requests and messages from his friends, texts and phone calls from him, never knowing who is who and when it will come again...my nerves are shot.He has the ex girlfriend who lives just a block away in his own...
- I am trying to focus on me as I know it is what I need to do for my health, not only mentally and emotionally, but physically. Unfortunately, even when I maintain NC, it seems that something happens to put negative contact on me. I just posted in...
- Ok, not sure if anyone has had this happen but here goes. My ex abuser who broke it off with me in April and reinitiated contact just a few weeks ago via phone call, which I ignored, then email, I ignored and finally a text which I "stupidly" did...
- I have noticed that lately I keep finding out that the more I set boundaries not only in relationships involving intimacy but also in friendships..I am finding that people I thought were my friends, really never were. :(I find these very upsetting...
- Well, he kept calling from Thursday on. Left voice mails and sometimes not. The voice mails started with using my name and saying just to call, then using my full name, stating the time (which is not off course for him as it fits with his OCD, He is...
- I am not sure if it is ok to discuss something like this on here, but I wanted to talk about something a bit lightheated for a change. Being in so many draining, abusive relationships has me trying to discover who I am again and well I thought maybe...