Joanieslegacy
Status: Just want to get over the hump and feel normal again...
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- I allowed myself to reengage with my ex when he contacted me back in mid August. I tried to remain NC but I failed. Though this time it was a friendship, no intimacy..it still screwed up my head and my emotions. The last time I seen him was Oct 21...
- Is it just me or does anyone else notice that they have problems with boundaries not only with relationships with significant others but with family and friends as well? I seem to get walked on by family and friends and always have. I have but a few...
- I tried to leave it at NC yesterday even with him calling me at work and at home and leaving voicemails to call. I recalled that in my text I had asked him if he had the number of the nuerologist that he had found for me when we were dating though...
- Well I am so upset with myself after almost making all day without contacting him even though I tried to keep turning my phone off when he would call. Not sure if it was nerves or being sick or the misplaced guilt I can't seem to shake, but I ended...
- Someone on here had mentioned that my ex had probably not contacted me for 4 days because he was understanding that I had strong boundaries. I did not return his call last Monday. Then he called Saturday morning and I let that go..but he got me at...
- Apologizing for my drama earlier. Just because I let myself get upset by the ex get in touch with me at work does not mean I had to vent here. It is not like he is physically threatening me so I will just turn my phone off and lock my doors. If he...
- I am almost to the point of not answering the phone at work anymore when I am here alone. I am just scared the calls will go to voicemail and I will get into trouble for not doing my job. Now that I have talked with him I am even more upset than I...
- Ok, so my ex boyfriend contacted me today at work. It showed a private number. He gave me a new story about how he had been busy trying to sell his last business and get the new one running. Thing is to get the new one running, the woman with the...
- I tend to write poetry to help me vent and express the things I can't verbally. Since my abuse started when I was a very young child, my poetry sometimes goes back to those days. This poem is for anyone who has suffered emotional, sexual or physical...
- I just bumped my thread from a while back to perhaps help in maybe seeing what my problem is?The ex boyfriend did come for his stuff, a few days later and he did it while I was at work, but he manipulated me in that he used the this story. While I...
- Have not been on here in awhile as I have been basically just working and getting by. Have not been doing my therapy either but had kept up the NC until I finally broke after a message on my phone from him August 5th saying he still missed me. I...
- Hi, haven't been on for awhile as I have been down with a stomach virus and honestly depressed over the way my friendship has been going. My friend I went to the salon with and shopping with (the one who works in mental health and connected me to a...
- A while back, I sent my ex in laws a nice card and letter along with a check to help them out financially. They are retired and both in their late 70s with health issues and financial issues. On top of that they have a nephew living there who does...
- Since my failed marriage and my failed engagement, I have had 8 abusive relationships. :( Some have been physically and sexually abusive, all have been emotionally abusive. All have lied and cheated on me. I used to believe this was what I deserved...
- Well I managed to keep my day of fun with my friend. I did fight a headache all day but I hung in there. First off we both had our hair colored, cut and styled. I thought hers looked amazing but even though I had done nothing with mine for a year...