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- have been spending more time around ex/so and he just annoying as hell. he never shuts up!!!!!!!!!!!!. asks me question constantly and if someone stops by i cant carry on a conversation with them cause he has to be the center of attention and tries...
- when i have a day off i am confused about what i want to do. cause i dont want to spend time with SO, dont want to drive along way to see daughter and on and on. i try to stop and ask myself what do i want to do? focusing on myself and trying to...
- we all do things for a reason. trying to figure out why i am staying with someone that i dont like and resent so much. what purpose does it serve for me? does it give me someone to direct anger at, am i just scared, used to a relationship that i...
- had my SO leave while son and wife and grandbabies were at our house and it was the best decison for all. we had a good time. but he is really depressed about it and feeling neglicted and that it was not fair. trying to detach from him and not feel...
- HEARD ALL THIS LAST NIGHT JUST SO OVERWHELMED AND AT MY WITS ENDDO I HAVE SOMEONE ELSE.WE USED TO HAVE FUNYOUR ON THE COMPUTER ALL THE TIMEYOU AVOID METOLD ABOUT THAT CHRISTMAS THAT HE CANT BE HEREI TOLD HIM I JUST DONT CARE ANYMORETHIS IS NOT...
- my daughter in law wont come here if he is here so told him months ago that he needed to go stay with his daughter. so brought it up today and he is acting depressed and callled his daughter and said that he "made reservations at her house" work...
- No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path. Buddha "Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge." Eckhart...
- i told my so/ex that he has to leave when my son and daughter in law are here cause he does not want to be around him. he agreed but anxious about how this will work out and that i am going to be stressed and not enjoy the visit. he wants to see my...
- wow here i am again in a big mess with my so/ex whatever. hes sick all time- stomach aches, not sleeping, depressed, anxious, bored, and around my family or friends likes to throw out comments about me that are smart ass. such as - she doesnt like...
- i dont understand what bipolar is and dont want to say what problems i am having at this time. i have read about bipolar but seems that alot of people i know have these symptoms but function well. many family members seem to be bipolar but where do...
- well try to explain this. my ex got a DUI when we were not living together. so he starts calling my sister and her family for rides and they get mad cause he is a smart ass about stuff if they cant drop all and get a ride. uses excuses that i need...
- my councelor said that i see things in black and white. and am just alittle OCD. not really sure what she means and did not have time to discuss it futher. any comments on this black and white thinking. i think it partly related to being brought up...
- so unhappy and over whelmed my ex and my job are just really getting on my nerves. i know that i am the only one that can change this all. need some insight and words of inspiration from u all. back with ex and just cant stand him. nothing changes...
- i am discovering that i have been very code at work. i started a new profession the last 3 years and my boss treats me like a 5th grader. i am have been focusing on my part in this but have came to see that i am being picked on and devalued. i have...
- found myself yesterday jumping into everyone elses feelings and getting very stressed out. i realized it and worked on it and feel better today. seems like everyone who i was absorbing their feelings were in my head telling me the way they see...