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- So heading to Disney tomorrow with my son and family. I should be happy but he is so difficult to be around at times. was feeling pretty good till I talked to him the other day. he had a big job interview and is very stressed out and I called at 3...
- Was a very active participant in this group for several years. Have been posting more lately and not getting any responses. So am just stating what I am seeing. This group is for all not just those that are in the clique. We all have things to share...
- Wow such a good topic and posts. I have done this also and continue to remind my inner child that I will take care of us. I read Self Compassion by Kristina Neff. It was very helpful and recommend it. It opened my eyes to being compassionate to...
- Have not been posting for along time. I have realized that I code with my daughter. Have for years done about anything to spend time with her and kids. Sent money, planned my work schedule around her, drove to her house 3 hours away, and tried to...
- Stop all criticism. Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are always...
- hello to all the names that I don't recognize. its been probably 6-9 months since I posted. I am not new to the 12 steps or code books or groups. I have posted several things without much response. asking to more included and will also be doing...
- its so hard to stay in the moment and know that we do not control persons, places, or things. I get really OCD about things stressful day yesterday taking my son with heart surgeries for 6 month check up. then the contractor working on my house has...
- hello group I feel so relieved to be posting and reading posts again. have been busy and not in the discussions and am paying for it. falling back into voices in my head telling me that I am not good enough for all that think I am not. been...
- well here is a question that would love some responses from u all concerning my nephew who will not do anything to help me around the house and has been rude when I asked him for help with things I can't do, he does not work and has PTSD from Iraq,...
- been separated for a year and missing him. he has been very sick over the last 6 months and I am afraid he might not make it through the next surgery he has schedule in jan. and then I would wish I had spent time with him and told him how I feel....
- We get obsessed with what we think another is and what we want them to be that they are not. we all understand this. its a means of controlling and also for myself I am great at not seeing the men in my life for what they are and that they are not...
- freaking out about visit. I am so anxious and need to calm down. please help me calm down with some good posts
- so going to c my son in florida. was going to drive and it seemed like such a long drive that I decided to fly. called my daughter in law to tell her and she was like ok we will pick u up at airport and take u to the motel. we are staying on the...
- feel code with my daughter. she is so difficult. thinks that I am trying to control her by asking like what is the granddaughter schedule around holidays so I can get my schedule where she can visit! not letting me permission to check on baby when...
- my story is similar to PJ's. my family gatherings were always associated with alcohol. even I remember it seemed inappropriate at times. like the death of my grandmother ( who was a devote Baptist and never drank) there we are after the funeral...