nohappy

so it is so beautiful out today. I think spring is trying it's hardest to make an appearance.So I went out and pulled a lot of the weeds up around my porch from the old plants of last year. I wait...

so today my friend took me shopping. don't have that much extra to spend til the big d is done (I am cautious) but all my jewelry was bought by stbx,. I needed something to wear for me. I still kept...

So had to do taxes as if I was filing without filing. Atty wants to see if stbx gets money back if we do joint. Anyone want to bet he's done them already??? That would make 3 violations of the court...

I told you I wasn't fretting about the support payment and lo and behold it was deposited this morning. again not what he was ordered to pay but i can deal with it. it just keeps making his arrearage...

This is my best friend. She is my bed buddy and most loyal companion. She gives me unconditional love. Who could ask for more???

So new lawyer seems to be very intense and excited about getting stbx on stand. She's convinced he's hiding something. Possibly future funds from his property. Mineral rights to be exact. Can't...

so we went for divorce feb 19th. didn't happen. ,y lawyer asked for his log books (truckdriver) and ex flew into rage. judge asked what he made and his lawyer kept himhawing around til my lawyer said...

heard from lawyer yesterday. we now have an oral hearing an hour before the pre-trial. Seems he wants to get more money since ex is notorious for NOT paying bills on time. I would rather pay my own...

I got my papers from the court yesterday (saturday) so expecting call from lawyer beginning of week. Court ordered spousal support (hallelujah!) health coverage and he pay the bank note we have. And...

Okay from all my research I know that this latest maneuver of his NOT to pay support is blowing steam off. I know ohio law says he will pay just not sure how much. 28 yrs is usually 1 yr for every...

Ok so I got the papers. No surprise there. I called it for what it was and I was right. He wants to walk away giving me nothing but house and car and he thinks that is all I should get after 28 yrs....

I'm still here. I'm still moving on. I'm still much stronger than I was a year ago. but I'm still waiting for the end. He pulled many, many delays. His lawyer pulled a few fast ones too. But I have...

I'm still here. I'm still moving on. I'm still much stronger than I was a year ago. but I'm still waiting for the end. He pulled many, many delays. His lawyer pulled a few fast ones too. But I have...

Ok so now it is a waiting game. His lawyer sends letter. My lawyer sends one back. yada yada yada. His no doubt doesnt have all the "correct" details since stbx doesn't know how to share the truth....

been absent from here for far too long. Lots has been going down. We had worked on reconciliation. Lasted from march 2011 to sept 2, 2011. Then he left Yet again. did nc rule for months. then he...