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- "I am powerless over others and my life has become unmanageable"This is the first of 12 steps. I hope it begins to help me with my codependence. I am going to try to work the CODA 12 steps but its hard because I am doing it alone. I will try to find...
- http://emotionalheal.org/nutmeg1.htmThis was right on for my situation.www.emotionalheal.org (taken from) Thought this might help some others here!
- I know its better for me and everyone if I choose to keep NC. But I like many of my co victims here do feel the strong urge to tell him off!! I am so tempted and I dont know why but my anger is so hight yesterday and today and instead of giving him...
- I notice lately I am feeling a lot of anger towards my ex. Probably because I let him have contact for a while but I am so angry because he admitted one time after no contact for 2 months (and he waited around the corner for me on my way to work)...
- Ok I have been getting scared lately when reading certain posts in this forum and would like to see other peoples input if you have any thoughts on this. It just occured to me while reading a post tonight. I think it is not good to think too...
- Does anyone know if being in an emtionally abusive relationship for years make a person lonely, needy, and desperate for company and love? Is that why I feel that way? Did I become so dependent on the relationship maybe I lost my ability to live and...
- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikouCKUwQ1Ycopy & paste in your browser!! I hope someone else feels this hits home for the actions of their abusers!!
- ONe thing he constantly did to me was to keep me hanging. Saying he will call me later and he never does. Saying he would come over but never did. Saying be back in a iittle while and he never did. These things kept me at bay waiting for him when he...
- I am so upset. In my housing area we have wooden fences and two times I actually saw the nieghbor behind me from my backyard kicking down the fence. This is a big deal for me because I have two dogs. So I had to go buy all the wood and fix the fence...
- Reminds me of the song by Pink Floyd "Comfortably Numb" sort of like I am not feeling anything at times. I am glad the anxiety seems to have faded for the most part but I have this feeling of numbness. I feel tired a lot lately too. I wonder if...
- I am just saying pets really do make good therapy because you can love them and care for them and they always love you back unconditionally. I have had water turtles, lizards, guinnea pigs, hamsters (they bite so I dont like them), rats, cats and...
- One thing that I keep remembering about being with my ex is that he would say "You always play the victim" The thing is I was never playing I was the victim and he just never will admit that truth. It was part of his crazymaking or gaslighting...
- I knew many could relate to this it is taken from the book "The verbally abusive Relationship" by Patricia Evans...A scientist conducted an experiment. She put frog number 1 into a pan of very hot water. The frog jumped right out. Then she placed...
- I know it is normal for me to wonder if my ex did try to text me while I have no cell phone service. I wish I didn't think of him at all but what do I expect when the crazy relationship went on for almost 7 years? I think I expect too much too soon...
- It has been 4 weeks and I do not feel very happy yet. Yes I am sticking with my decision and have had no contact at all but I still feel pain. I know its not enough time but I really wish I could find something to get excited about if anyone knows...