radrm
Status: "God, Grant me Serenity"
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- I don't know if anyone has had this happen and I guess its part of my codependence that I am still in this relationship. My boyfriend gets home from work late when I am asleep. Many times I woke to find him with my phone going through it thinking I...
- I quit going to meetings because I had taken a secretary job I didn't want (I know I can't be there all the time) and when I didn't go to a meeting this lady was texting me asking me why I didn't go and will I be at the next one etc... I got 5 texts...
- I recently (3 weeks ago) ended a bad relationship and I am working on detaching. I think about practicing self care and I do little things that I like like go for a swim, cook, draw, learn to play my clarinet, and I am just wondering what else I can...
- I say this because I notice a lot of things my ex did would set off my anxiety and we would end up fighting and he would leave. I wonder if my disorder causes the problem or his lack of understanding of the disorder? Like maybe it is me? He leaves...
- Well I relapsed again... I wonder what is wrong with me... he doesn't leave me alone even if months go by or more... and here i am again feeling the same thing, abandoned by him... Its the same old story. I know I probably don't know many here now...
- I have been reading some of the Coda Material and it seems that we are here to support each other. So is it wrong to share techniques or tactics that have helped me in similar situations or is that being codependent? I am sort of confused and have...
- I have been thinking about how I got here. How did I end up being in abusive situations over and over again throughout my life and I realized that I think its all because of me being abandoned when I was a child. By my Mother. I have always felt...
- I didn't go back to him but I broke no contact when he kept texting me yesterday. Haven't had contact for 13 1/2 hours so far. The good thing is I didn't go back with him. He asked me to go out with him on New Years Eve and I said now. I told him...
- I find myself checking my phone and email every few hours in case he texted me or emailed me trying to contact me. Then I think of things he did and I get angry. Then I feel depressed and sad. I keep wondering if I will make it this time and stick...
- I hope I feel better in a year from now and feel glad I stuck it out. I keep feeling like I miss him but then I ask myself why? Do I miss him going to his ex wife house for everything leaving me home and me knowing that she and his kids hate me...
- I have constantly questioned myself and my own actions when going through all the feelings after we break up again. I am not the one who tries to contact him. I am thinking that since he is the one who keeps trying to text or email and talk me into...
- My ex always left me and went to all his family for sympathy saying that I try to keep him from his kids but it wasn't even about that at all unless its impossible to separate your ex wife from your kids? That is why they all see me as the bad guy....
- I sure hope it stays this way. Its weird because there are moments where I feel unsettled because he hasn't tried to contact me like I secretly want him to try so I know he cares. I know its not reality - I just get that twinge of feelings once in a...
- I have terrible allergies the most annoying one is to fragrance, perfume, any kind of scented things such as laundry soap. shampoos, any perfume even things that claim to be natural scents. Its so bad if I go to Church and someone has perfume or...
- Lord have mercy! Even at church! I went this morning and I didn't know until I came out that he was there, I didn't see him but I saw his car and then when I got home I saw a text on my cell saying "You wana go to breakfast?" What the hell? I am...