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- Here I am in another horrible sad weekend moment. I am fine all week, and even in the weekends as long as I am moving - working out, doing errands, or if my son is at home. But the minute I sit to relax, or he leaves (most of the time since he's...
- What did you guys do with your wedding ring? It's a nice piece of jewelry, but it seems tainted now. I'm not sure my kids would want it passed down, or not... It does still represent a long-term love, but it went sour. Thoughts?
- I try to understand the fact thAt you're not really ready to date until you're hapoy with yourself. Otherwise the other party will find you needy or sense your desperation? I guess? So, I am a successful woman with many interests, book club,...
- Maybe this is the wrong place to post this topic, but since were all around same age, I trust your thoughts on this. I've dated here and there throughout separation, most were just a single date. Two people I really liked and saw 5 or 6 times...
- Think of me tomorrow. I go to divorce court. A little prayer would be awesomeThanks all
- I do not know why but church has been a place I tend to get very blue and weepy. I always think about poor me and all those families -husband by the wife's side, etc... In reality, my ex wasn't ever by my side at church, but it seems sadder now. ...
- My STBX asked me to go breakfast with him, our kids and his dad today for Father's Day. Just a few weeks ago I would have fretted over this and probably ended up going because I want to please him, or because I would have thought he was trying to...
- Is it easier to move on if your ex is a jerk? I see so many posts from people on here who's exes have been downright mean and awful throughout the marriage and the divorce process. Mine has been so dang sweet and kind. Yes, that sounds crazy since...
- I am so glad I just took this vacation to Florida with my sister and friend. No, it was not a big wild, fun-filled, completely relaxing time. There was some uneasiness, some panic, some tears, as I got used to not being with my husband and kids on...
- I have posted in this before, how my STBX and I talk too much and I know I need to go contact. I was so resolved to do it after my daughters graduation and party which we hosted together. I told him and prepared us for it. Tears all around, even...
- So I felt proud of my strength in the first six months post separation. Admittedly I had some horrible days but I felt mostly clear-headed and kept marching along. He claimed to be a miserable wreck, and even though he still kept in contact with...
- OMG, am I the only one who gets upset when people talk about celebrating divorce? Really??? I don't care how bad your marriage was, you NEVER entered into intending to have an unhappy outcome. I realize that sometimes people do end up much happier...
- How can I explain this situation adequately? My ex is a very kind-hearted and weak man. He will do favors and kind acts for anyone, but struggles to avoid alcohol and obviously the temptation of other women. We will be divorcing this summer and...
- So, this could happen to anyone single, not just divorcees... But I need to have an outpatient medical procedure done and I need someone to take a day off work, spend it with me and drive me home. Who else besides a spouse would want to do that?? I...
- He moved out last April. Saturday will be our 22 year wedding anniversary. Ironic. 2/22. Two doesn't seem so lucky anymore. How did all of you get through the anniversaries? Especially the first one post divorce/separation? He wants us to...