Maybe this is the wrong place to post this topic, but since were all around same age, I trust your thoughts on this. I've dated here and there throughout separation, most were just a single date. Two people I really liked and saw 5 or 6 times but it didn't work out and that was fine, given my circumstances. But in both of those cases I felt excited, and eager to talk to them during the few weeks we dated.

I'm now officially divorced and seeing a very kind, stable man who has been divorced for 6 years. Kids are grown, he's nice looking, and we have many interests in common. It's comfortable to be around him and he clearly likes me. What's the problem? I don't feel that excitement about him. I like him, but rarely think about him when we are Apart. I know he would like to make this exclusive, and I am so hesitant. Should I feel that or will it grow? Am I expecting too much? Do I just need time to explore more now that I am truly single? Or will I be passing up a potentially great guy, just thinking the grass is greener elsewhere. I know you don't know either of us, but any thoughts or perspectives would help.