Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

love and hugs
kamary
Another charming idea is this:
http://www.weddingringcoffin.com/index.php
laws are funny, but laws and justice have nothing to do with each other
i still have mine
another thing that really irks me.... I always got nice gifts, thoughtful and always helped / supported the kids getting her presents
the last thing I gave is a big really neat looking letter L for her first name, it is just the right script and size and she fffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffing wears it all the time,
to me it shows what i am and was .... something to use
I just tucked mine away in my home safe for safekeeping and there they still sit. It's a total rip-off to sell jewelry second hand, so until I have a plan, I'll just hold onto them.
I asked him for HIS ring back,but only because I had replaced his original "cheap" band with a significant ring for his 40th bday and put a large "family" diamond in it that I'd inherited from my name-sake great aunt. I really only "wanted" the diamond back and I was somewhat scared to ask him for the ring but I did it (by email!) and he sent it back to me through one of my kids. He wrote that he would'nt have kept it anyway....lol RIGHT!? Like he would've OFFERED it back? No way!!! I'm so glad I had the guts to ask for it. My gutsy great aunt would've been proud!
So one day I may take the jewels out of the settings and do something and if not...the boys can do what they like with them. I have zero emotional attachment to any of them anymore.
http://thevarmps.tumblr.com/post/100047769152/one-ring-to-rule-them-all
It was FREEING for her... Something we'll never forget either - we were just talking about old things that happened last week and that came up... We can REALLY laugh about it now! HAHAHA Good Times...