sunnyjax
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- Just wanted to check in with everyone, you have all been hugely helpful to me and I really feel so much better.I still have my monents but I have stopped with the continual crying!Yes my heart aches and I spend time thinking about him and how our...
- I have been a member of this group for a while but havent posted for a while.I am codependant.I have struggled all my life with relationships. As soon as I get involved with someone I cannot cope - it consumes me. I have been working on myself and...
- The mornings are always the hardest for me. I wake up crying.I saw him yesterday which has really weakened my resolve. It has confused me. He acted as if we were still a couple, and worryingly, I let him. I let him hold my hand as we walked down the...
- Just to fill you in, I have just left my emotionally abusive husband of four years. I am pretty wobbly about it all but I was resolved to move on and keep away from him. I arranged to pop down to see him and discuss what was going on with us. But he...
- So he came over.Now I feel super super confused.He had bought a car load of complete random stuff from the house. I just dont get it at all.But then we talked some, and I cried some. He said it was over and what's done is done. Then we chatted some...
- So he came over.Now I feel super super confused.He had bought a car load of complete random stuff from the house. I just dont get it at all.But then we talked some, and I cried some. He said it was over and what's done is done. Then we chatted some...
- So he came over.Now I feel super super confused.He had bought a car load of complete random stuff from the house. I just dont get it at all.But then we talked some, and I cried some. He said it was over and what's done is done. Then we chatted some...
- Hi everyone, Im not sure how many of you remember me...I used to come on here maybe ywo or three or even four years ago. I was in a bad place with who I was and who I was with.My husband is a narcissist and a psychopath and very abusive.Three weeks...
- so its been a tough few days.he started negotiating his way out of this mess, sorting out the finance and what he is responsible for. I have agreed to some things but i am nervous about not doi g this right, but im ok with just being able to move...
- So, I was married for 3 years, together for 4 and a half. It was a very abusive relationship, emotionally, and the day before I left he started pushing and shoving me so I knew it was time to go. Controlling and bullying was the tip of the ice...
- He text me for the first time in 5 days.He said ' I guess I need to tell my parents we have split up....x'I sadi; 'why wont you talk to me?'He replied ' you are not here to talk to.'I replied that ' I came, you chose not to be in.'then nothing.Do I...
- I have had a few rough days....agonising over why he doesnt contact me. It seems that he doesnt really know that I have left ( he contacted me two days ago to ask for some digital files that he needed, it was all 'normal' and fine. He said he didnt...
- I am a bit baffled by a few comments on here that I have read about 50 being old. "Im 50 and too tired and old....'WHAAAAT!Why all the negativity about being 50, 50 or 60 isnt old, or 70 for that matter.50 doesnt mean its game over, it means you...
- Hi everyone, this new DS is a bit odd....I was just checking in to let all my friends on here, and people who have offered me valuable advice and support in my relationship with my abusive husband....I left him.I am in a safe place.I came on here...
- I know this seems silly but i am so cross about this.I wondered what it would take to get me to leave my husband and now i finally feel like i am there.Its a relief.This is how i got there.Last weekend he went away on a guys weekend. My daughters...