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I know this seems silly but i am so cross about this.
I wondered what it would take to get me to leave my husband and now i finally feel like i am there.
Its a relief.
This is how i got there.
Last weekend he went away on a guys weekend. My daughters and I had the house to ourselves, i made so e choclate dipped strawberries for us while we have movie night.
So today my Husband goes to the store for strawberries and choclate and then makes about 20 choclate dipped strawberries.
Nice.
But he then ate them in front of us all saying that he wanted to show us how it felt that i made some and we didnt save him any.
It is so tit for tat.
Spiteful and childish.
Who is this man that he can spend so long doing something to just make a point?!
Im furious.
I really hate anythin g childish and spiteful like this it makes me so cross.
How would you react?!
I know it seems childish of me to react at all but this really is the final straw. How can he make such a show of making these for us and then telling us we cant have any because we didnt save him any a week ago, even though he was away. Who would even register that or remember?! What sort of a person would go to so much trouble to make a point?!
I wondered what it would take to get me to leave my husband and now i finally feel like i am there.
Its a relief.
This is how i got there.
Last weekend he went away on a guys weekend. My daughters and I had the house to ourselves, i made so e choclate dipped strawberries for us while we have movie night.
So today my Husband goes to the store for strawberries and choclate and then makes about 20 choclate dipped strawberries.
Nice.
But he then ate them in front of us all saying that he wanted to show us how it felt that i made some and we didnt save him any.
It is so tit for tat.
Spiteful and childish.
Who is this man that he can spend so long doing something to just make a point?!
Im furious.
I really hate anythin g childish and spiteful like this it makes me so cross.
How would you react?!
I know it seems childish of me to react at all but this really is the final straw. How can he make such a show of making these for us and then telling us we cant have any because we didnt save him any a week ago, even though he was away. Who would even register that or remember?! What sort of a person would go to so much trouble to make a point?!
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Here is my new brother, copper :) He's so tiny! Moo and Tuck were ok with him on first meeting. Rocket due to his severe aggression will never meet Cooper.
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Maybe you and the kids should go away on a great weekend and leave him to his strawberries...smile... big hug....xo
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/communication-success/201508/10-signs-passive-aggressive-relationship
Yes you had a lot of nerve eating the strawberries while he was away with his mates, spending time and money, having a lark on a trip that he didn't take you on
The nerve you had to eat them all
For so long I would sigh and carry on., now I am different.
and as usual he says this is all in my imagination, he didn't really want to piss me off by eating them in front of me - what sort of a person do I think he is to do that?!..., he wasn't doing that at all.or trying to make a pointsilly me!
I should add that last week he got arrested for sexual harassment of a minor. Enough said. I just thought there is no way I could have my Grand children around this guy.
I'm sad but I am happy.
I hope you will follow through this time around. This guy is a major POS. I haven't met many people like that in my life and I met a LOT.
Wishing you all the best and I hope you will enjoy your freedom.
It has been several over a month since I broke up with my fianc and several weeks since I left.
I am very happy.
Hugs