Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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Joanieslegacy 09/28/2013

I am almost to the point of not answering the phone at work anymore when I am here alone. I am just scared the calls will go to voicemail and I will get into trouble for not doing my job. Now that I have talked with him I am even more upset than I was already. He is planning to just come down here, whether I want him to or not. He is planning to just ride my horse again, whether I allow it or not and then there is the possibility if he would get hurt again, he could sue me for homeowners insurance as his last bill was $600.00 and he has no insurance and was griping to me about that.
I want to just run away. :(

RockinBunny 09/28/2013

Good plan! Don't answer. Remember, you don't need him and his crazy life. And even if he does come down and try to interfere in yours, call the police on him. He sounds like he could do with a nice restraining order or several.

Stay strong xx

deleted_user 09/28/2013

I am learning not to answer the emails for the similar reason--- it is just upsetting and the more I respond the more he sends with more upsetting / odd requests or comments.
I agree--- don't answer and in reality that is a way to have additional data that he is pestering you... those voicemails can be saved if needed as evidence of his bothering you in the work place.
I am sorry that you have to deal with this frustration in your place of employment....that is not fair to you!

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