sarahb1985
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- Well, I thought he had changed, thought reconciliation might be possible. I am once again a fool. I found out this weekend that my ex was still texting the OW as recent as a month ago. He even had her and her kid to his house on a day he was...
- just been thinking. What keeps us (the cheated upon) holding on to that keeps us stuck. Being the marriage police is a miserable existence but we hang on even when people who supposedly love us have done horrible things to us, betrayed us, hurt us...
- Just curious, anyone ever hire a PI to put their doubts to rest one way or the other?
- I don't know if I can post here. I am the cheated upon, not the cheater. I would really like some insight from you all if that is possible.Married 15 years when I caught my H cheating with a girl at his work, kicked him out, divorced him. He went to...
- i thought me and the ex were on our way to reconcile. He is doing all the right things but I have this nagging doubt. I want to contact the OW and ask her if they have started seeing each other again. Is this a terrible idea. Anyone else done this...
- My ex is bipolar, he was diagnosed in 2009, we divorced earlier this year, in part because he wasn't taking good care of his mental health which caused a lot of issues between us. We are very close and trying to reconcile but I found out today he...
- So I could use some advice. While trying to figure out how I feel and what I want I have a new problem. I told my supposed best friends that I'm thinking of reconciling with my ex, at the least spending some time together to see how I feel. So my...
- i am six months post divorce. The ex who cheated on me is still in my life, we are friendly, I am trying to distance myself but I keep getting overwhelmed with this irrational jealousy for the woman he cheated on me with. I could handle him being...
- Okay, need advice on this one. Ran into guy that I went to high school with, nice guy, newly divorced as well. We talk for a few and he invites me to meet him for lunch. The vibe I got was two former high school mates talking about recent divorce...
- I am working so hard to stay clear of my ex so why do I have these moments when I want to get in my car and check on him. He has said all along that he isn't seeing the woman he cheated on me with but I feel this compulsion at times to "catch him"!...
- So it's a low day. Asking myself if I can actually do this and stay NC with my ex. Every fiber in me wants to check in with him, talk to him, see him. I know in my heart he hasn't and won't change but I keep holding onto this fantasy of what could...
- Finally got to my therapist today. I feel so much stronger about what I need to do.I think just having to say out loud the madness I've been thru these past few weeks sounded ridiculous even to me that I would put up with any of it. We talked about...
- Sorry I keep posting so much guys but this is just getting crazier by the minute. After my last talk with ex where I thought he was finally done. He called me at work (I don't have caller ID on my work phone) and started screaming and yelling at me,...
- I want to text my ex, but thought posting here would be better outlet. For those that know, he started texting me again and ending the texts with little heart kiss emojis and things like that. He called me tonight , I know I should not have...
- First let me be clear, I do t want to hurt myself. But I do find myself praying that God will take me. I just want some peace from all this pain. I see so many good people die, people who have people that love them, that will be missed and I tell...