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Sorry I keep posting so much guys but this is just getting crazier by the minute. After my last talk with ex where I thought he was finally done. He called me at work (I don't have caller ID on my work phone) and started screaming and yelling at me, calling me names I can't repeat, saying his Dad sent him an email, something about going off a ditch, and that he knows it was my doing. That I changed my Amazon password so he couldn't get into my account (I did do this, I changed all my passwords) Then accused me of messing with his Apple account?? I tried to stay calm and told him I didn't know what he was talking about.
He called me a liar and that since I was being so manipulative he was going to be with this other woman now that I had done these things and he always knew I was an awful person. He said what was left of his stuff at our house I could throw away and he would never bother to see our dog again.
I called his Mom next and told her what was going on and what was going on with them. She said they have been trying to reach him for weeks with no answer and that they were sick of his lies and were about ready themselves to cut off contact. I told her to please not tell him we spoke. She told me I was better than this and that they loved me and I deserved so much better than him.
I can't block my work phone or work email. Does anyone with experience in this know if this is really the end of this? I'm trying to do the right things here but it just seems to be making it worse?
He called me a liar and that since I was being so manipulative he was going to be with this other woman now that I had done these things and he always knew I was an awful person. He said what was left of his stuff at our house I could throw away and he would never bother to see our dog again.
I called his Mom next and told her what was going on and what was going on with them. She said they have been trying to reach him for weeks with no answer and that they were sick of his lies and were about ready themselves to cut off contact. I told her to please not tell him we spoke. She told me I was better than this and that they loved me and I deserved so much better than him.
I can't block my work phone or work email. Does anyone with experience in this know if this is really the end of this? I'm trying to do the right things here but it just seems to be making it worse?
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I so exhausted from pain in my back that started Sunday but was mild and almost gone till I took bath that night and think I twisted or did something to take it to excruciating...I am away for work in a different state so traveled Monday and worked today then called my boss to fyi her about fact I am falling apart and walking like elderly person! I did telemed and they called in prednisone and...
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Can't wait to burn my pumpkin spice candle! National Coffee Day is coming up on the 29th so I hope to score up on a free coffee.
You can block him zero and if he calls you at work you can threaten to file harassment charges.
It's going to be difficult to get him to take you seriously at this point, so you need to be paid pre op are to follow through.
His voice and hang up at work he is not going
To stop after so many years.
You will need to play hardball, he wants his cake
and eat it Too. He is a very sick man that does not
understand Reasoning or sanity.
Boundaries, morals or decency are not in
His bag of tricks. Contact DV for help or some
Suggestion and ideas. You can do it over
The phone.
Do not play nice it will only invite Him back
into your life. Says a lot when his parents
Had enough too.
Hugs
Mirandac
She did fill in some of the blanks. When he and I were working on things he was fine with them, talking etc. but once he went dark on me he did with them too. His mother thinks because he knows they would tell him this other woman is poison and he doesn't want to hear it.
The more I think about it the harder it gets to digest. I guess he did me a favor reminding me what it looks like when he does this. It's ugly. I have more resolve now to be in NC than I was when he was trying to fool me.
If he's as volatile as you're implying, you're doing a dangerous dance with him.