jojo42
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- Sorry this is soooooo long.....hang with me and chime in your thoughts if you wish. My verbally abusive ex has a new girlfriend. She has a 6 year old and a 10 year old. I seriously feel sorry for her. From the outside he seems like a great catch. I...
- I am new here. I have started to date a man that I have known for 18 years. He is pretty much the perfect man. He treats me like a queen. COMPLETE opposite in every respect then my ex. We are very very compatible. Here is the issue. He has an ever...
- Latest nasty email. I took your advice last time I entered an email and keep it straight to the point with no fluffy talk. Got the same result as last time! arg....For him to insinuate I am neglectful and top it off with I started this.....I had to...
- I have to have contact with my ex....soon to be ex....whatever he is...because of the kids, ages 15 and 21. Last week we got a letter from the courts rejecting our divorce and i have to resubmit some paperwork and explain somethings on it. Not a...
- I have have been away from my abuse almost a year, recently divorced. Out of no where comes this overwhelming guilt. I mean hot and heavy and very very real. I was crumbled in an hour almost to the point of tears. Thoughts were such as: What am I...
- I left last March and divorce will be final in 2 weeks. I refuse to let the stbx ruin any future relationships. I feel as if I have bounced back to myself rather nicely. A man I have worked with for 18 years asked me out. We have worked some side by...
- I filed for divorce on Wed. The stbx is still messing with the kids minds since he can't get to mine any longer. *My 15 year old was with him on Thanksgiving. My 20 year old was at my house 1 mile away. He refused to pick her up (she has no car) to...
- I have been out for 7 months now and have advised my husband of 23 years I am filing this week. Should be a very easy divorce because when I left I took care of all finacial issues at that time as far as seperating bills and vechicles and such. He,...
- After being thru the abuse cycle for 23 years (sigh...I hate to remind myself of that fact)I am so used the ups and downs that go with abuse. It was very normal for me to have 2 great weeks of great marriage to have him melt down and make the next...
- I put on my journal back in March that I was not proud of the fact that I was seperated from my husband. I was not proud that I feel like I failed and I let my kids down, let my God down, let my family and his down. THEN I reconnected with a high...
- I am finally back on here. Too much stuff going on to even sit down to type. How sad is that. I left him in March, stayed in an extended stay hotel and also with a friend until I purchased my own home. The question is this. I completely understand...
- Can some one address the issues of enabling them, how to stop and the effects on both the abuser and us?I was the peacemaker. I always smoothed it all over, I lied, I did what ever it took to keep peace in the camp. I now know that is enabling and...
- when you are sick? I have cold coming on and it just reminds of how angry he gets when I get sick. I have read books and countless articles but never seen this one. I have documented the cases. One time was when I had a C-section and my first...
- I know that there have been many books quoted and such but I found this article to be very helpful. Just thought I would share....way too long to post...http://www.crcna.org/site_uploads/uploads/abuse/resource_emotionalabuse.pdfHugs to all....
- I actually plan on him leaving but my basic question is this... Do I tell him every nitty gritty detail of the years of abuse led up to this or little bit or none at all? Hope that makes sense. They ALWAYS deny abuse and harmful words so what it he...