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- Got a call from my attorney today telling me the judge had made her rulings. Basically she denied my full custody motion and my 2 older kids will now be forced to live 50% of the time at the ex's whore's house that hejust moved into. The spousal...
- Haven\'t been here in a while but just wanted to check in. I do check and read up on people every now and then. Anyway, I wanted to let those who have supported me know what is happening with my life. My divorce is almost final. We have gone to...
- Another interaction with the stbx gone bad. I'm trying, or at least I was trying to get to a good co-parenting position with the asswipe of all time and once again he metaphorically kicked me while I was down. Shi*, he beat me, spit in my face and...
- I went to my last mediation appt yesterday. It was essentially to sign but once there the stbx started subtly changing some of our agreements. The whole thing was very confusing and at one point I became very angry when he said he would spend more...
- Just got home from second round of mediation. It\'s like tearing my heart out all over again. I am trying to stay positive but sometimes it hurts so much I can hardly breathe. I don\'t know what I keep expecting at these sessions, but I always...
- This past week, I've been trying to do some holiday shopping. I did it last year on my own but I was still in shock so it was all a blur. But this year, as I've walked through the stores, lonely and disconnected, I feel so lonely and out of...
- I haven't been here in a bit and I was reading through some of what was going on and a couple of things came up that I wanted to comment on.... First, welcome back Missiann!! You're right, self pity although sometimes necessary can easily turn to...
- Yesterday my stbx came to the house to do some yard work. He didn't come to the door or anything because I already knew that he was coming but while he was out there doing the work I couldn't even sit down for a minute inside! I just didn't know...
- I can't possibly thank you all individually because there are so many people to thank but you know who you are. I recently read all the hugs and mail that was sent to me and all the support was incredible! I had to step away for awhile from a lot...
- For anyone who had a OW or OM involved in their divorce, check out the post I put on cheaters anonymous. I asked a lot of straight forward questions and got some interest and honest answers. My questions were mostly about how could the cheat and...
- Okay here goes it. I am a wife whose husband had an emotional affair and almost surely a physical one with one of my friends. We now have 3 kids, I say now because when it started I was pregnant with the 3rd child. The entire situation was...
- Had a talk with the stbx a couple of days ago. During the conversation he said that the marriage was basically over for him with my first pregnancy 12 years ago. He has said this before but I had always written it off as something he convinced...
- My son has been discharged from the hospital and I think he's doing okay, he's with his dad this week so I'm not sure. He had a Drs appt yesterday and has to go in every day to have them listen to his lungs to make sure his is improving. Poor kid....
- After waiting a year, he finally filed. About 20 minutes after I brought my son home from the hospital my stbx cames and says he can't take the kids tomorrow (his week) to their follow-up appts which they can not miss because my son was in the ICU....
- Well, when it rains it pours. I wrote recently about how I was painfully beginning to accept the reality that my husband is truly walking out of my life but there was a sense of positiveness as well. On Saturday my daughter who is a competing...