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- So it's been 11 months since my husband moved out and deserted us. It has been a long and ugly road. I have been to the lowest points in my life and felt more pain than I ever believed was possible. I have watched my wonderful husband change into...
- So a few years ago my husband talked me into having a pool put in. I absolutely did not want one. We live in AZ and he'd been wanting one for years but I was adamant about it. Well, finally I caved but I insisted we get the easiest to maintain...
- Reading another post got me thinking (sometimes very hard to do!). I know that we all want to stay strong for our children so they don't get scared or worry too much. I understand that. But I read a lot that people are so afraid of crying or...
- I got this emailed to me and had to share!Billy Graham was returning to Charlotte after a speaking engagement there and when his plane arrived there was a limousine to transport him to his home. As he prepared to get into the limo, he stopped and...
- Okay, just for giggles...What's your most embarrassing moment ???Mine: Shortly after I got married, my h and I were at a store shopping for something and as we were walking down the aisle of the store, I saw something I thought we should by so I...
- I have boxes of video tapes, my stbx and I were big on family videos and pictures. I decided that rather than keep the bulky VHS tapes I would transfer them to DVDs. So I got out the videos and started to transfer them. Unfortunately they have to...
- I've been hanging on by the skin of my teeth but the loneliness is almost unbearable. I feel it so intensely some-times I don't know what to do. I try and get things done and I try and keep busy, but the loneliness is always there during those...
- This past week, I've been a wreck. I am one of those people that have very vivd and realistic dreams. I used to get mad at my stbx for things that occurred in my dreams because they seemed so real. He knew about my dreams so when I would wake up...
- I was so stupid tonight. My kids went to their dad's today for his week with them and after they left my daughter called and said she needed a certain outfit for school tomorrow and asked if I would bring it over. Tomorrow is her first day in...
- Some people have asked what codependency is. It's a great question! I was in a therapy group that among other issues focused on codependency and when they asked what each persons definition of it was, all 11 group members had different answers! ...
- My stbx moved out almost a year ago. To this day, he has not filed. In the meantime, he has this "friend" who he spends all his time with and they go on trips together and stuff. For Father's day, my out-laws were in town for 3 or 4 days. They...
- Last year on the 4th of July, my husband, kids and I went to my parents house for a bbq and then to the park to watch the fireworks. We do that every year. This year we are doing it again minus the husband (who by the way is on a trip to San Diego...
- Okay, so you and your stbx or ex are standing in front of the judge and you've each told your stories. The judge looks at you with compassion and empathy tells you it's going to be okay. Then the judge turns to your partner with fire in her eyes...
- Okay so it's Wednesday and we're half way through this week and I think it a good enough reason to uncork the wine and guzzle a couple of glasses! If my stbx had any brains he wold get me drunk and i'd be pretty cooperative. But like I said, if he...
- The last week has been a tough one and I have been more depressed than I have in a while. For the last couple of weeks, I\'ve been thinking that I need some kind of contact with a man. I don\'t want physical contact but I was thinking just starting...