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- To all.this is the hardest column that I had to write.But before he died in 2004....my dear brother gave me a box.Frank was joking and he told me not to open it.I did not open this box until this weekend and I don't know what to do...In it..were...
- On May 22nd,2009 my boyfriend of 12 years killed himself.I found his body and he died in my arms.We were together for 12 years and like every other couple we had problems.Brad was clean and sober for 5 years and we did a lot of things together.i...
- I am writing this column and it will appear that I am down right nasty.But when a person loses someone ..people try to "cheer them up."My cousin did this when I lost Brad and it made me feel worse.What did he do? He sent me a newsletter.It a letter...
- This is the holiday season and things do happen.One of the things that has happened is sudden death.Sudden death is when someone that you know whether if be boyfriend or such dies unexpectedly and this has happened to me.The person who died suddenly...
- In may it was 6 years that I lost my Brad and it has been a living hell since then.Only with the support of these wonderful people on Daily Strength I have been able to come through.But here is one question....What do you do when you are of...
- I can write this column because for the past 6 years I have been in deep mourning over Brad.Brad and i were together for 12 years and during the last 3 years of his life...it was sheer hell.My Brad became addicted to meth and there is no cure for...
- In january of this year..i moved to senior housing and I am still getting used to it.My rent is so much lower and I have got more time to write and do the things i love.Before he passed away...my older brother Frank told me....."If things go rough...
- I am crying as I am typing this.You see i had to end a friendship today.In fact,several people wont be hearing from me anymore.Why? Because they were not there on May 22nd,2009 and they are always telling me to change the subject.At the present time...
- The anniversay of Brads death is coming up in just 14 days and already I feel drained and exhasuted.It will be 6 years and I do miss him so much and wish that he was here to apologize to him for failing him like I did.I am the one who found his...
- It will be 6 years since I lost Brad in May and thats in a couple of weeks.We were together for 12 years and now I am finding out that Brad has a secret life and it has soured me.I have given up on dating and this is the reason why...although Brad...
- How many of us have had unexpected vjisitors? I mean people who just did not give a care in the world suddenly come over.What did I do? I told them "Good Riddance".These people knew that Brad was acting real strange and did not offer to help.I was...
- This column is for anyone who lost a loved one.It is so important that I do write this.But some people cannot take a person grieving and what do they do.......the leave.He left me many years ago and I wish that I could at least revitalize this...
- There is a question us grieving must endure.It is What did he die of? I find that this question is rude and crude.So this is my reply.............What in Gods Name do you want to know for? Are you writing a book? Brads death was not natural and it...
- When you are grieving you need a lot of time alone and you need a great deal of support and friends.Friends are important for this time and how does one be a friend to someone who is grieving? Let me answer this question....The first thing that you...
- I am writing this column because I feel it will help the newly grieving.But there is something everyone should know about..It is called Sudden Death.The Sudden Death happned to one of my classmates.He was 60 and he was complaining about shoulder...