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- The anniversary of Brads death will be soon.It will be 3 years and I am still in pain.Nothing has helped.And people are trying their best to cheer me up and I have been going to the local tavern for the past month.I sing karaoke every Tuesday.I do...
- There is no sympathy from others for sudden death.What is sudden death? It means when a healthy person suddenly dies and there is no explanation for it.I have been the receipt of sudden death.And believe me....people when they hear that he died just...
- Everyone wants me to date.They want to me to forget about Brad.I cant.It will be 3 years in May and the tears are still flowing.But I had a date and it was a date from hell.I dont intend to see or call him again.The first thing that he did he was 20...
- I am writing this column to soften some of the questions that some people ask of the grieving.And it is sad to say that people do not keep in touch and are suspicious of people who do.I always remember birthdays and anniversarys and such and this is...
- I am very puzzled lately and I have been depressed.Brad used to watch The Ghost Whisperer and he began to believe in some of the stuff on that show.Brad loved animals.And he loved cats.Before his untimely death.Brad and I used to feed all of the...
- I have realized lately that I am not one of these super human beings that the guests on Oprah have been talking about.I have tried and i have failed and it is time that us grieving people take a look at some of these gurus like Dr.Phil because bad...
- I had an experience that I would like to share and I would like to know what it means.The other day I opened my door and outside of the door was a little white kitten.The kitten must have been at least 3 months old and it was very skinny.It had very...
- When I lost my father in 1987,I was 40 years old and working temp at a small bank in New York and when this happened I noticed that grief is not welcomed in the work force and in fact when you lose a person you can be subject to not being...
- It will be 3 years in May that I found the body of my boyfriend Brad in our yard at our rented home.SO much has happened.And I am trying.I have been doing karoke and open mic.I have been writing in a journal.I have tried to be nice by giving away my...
- Today is Feburary 18th.It is John Travoltas and Yoko Onos birthday,but today holds a special place for me.Today my Brad would have been 52.It will be 3 years in May that I held him in my arms for the last time.I did not know at that time that Brad...
- DO you think that people forget during the funeral?Some of these people who are offering comfort really are a bunch of jackasses.How can you help a person who is grieving? Here are a few things that everyone can do.Instead of mailing the sympathy...
- It will be 3 years that Brad will be dead.I miss him terribly.But lately there have been a series of mishaps and I want to know do the dead haunt the living? Last week,I returned hom after a trip to the doctor.When i came in the house,my cat Kramer...
- Brad would have been 52 on 2/18/2011.People want me to forget.I cant.I cant get pass it and the grief therapy isnt working.I have been crying almost everyday and noone is around when I do.I hate to let people see me cry.After i cry...i feel...
- Recently I met a co worker of Brads at the supermarket.He was with a group of men ,so I suppose he was on lunch.He asked me how Brad was.I told him that Brad committed suicide and in front of the whole line,he remarked...."Brad did not appear to be...
- Things have been a bit better.Tomorrow I sing again about a 3 year absence but I miss Brad and I miss his smile and ways.I miss having pizza with him and all of the necessiites.But some of my friends I am not seeing anymore.Brad told me this would...