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- I don't know if anyone can relate to how I'm feeling or what I mean by what I'm about to write, but I'm so confused that I thought I would just throw it out there and see what comes back. I have been living apart from my husband for almost 3 months...
- I know there isn't really too much advice anyone can give me here about this...I just can't believe it and need to vent. So I've been waiting for the stbx to sign the separation agreement for a month and a half (he initiated the split, but I told...
- So I've been out of the house for about a month and half now, on my own in a new apartment. I have been relatively lucky in the sense that my ex has not been harassing me or contacting me constantly although he has been contacting me (I've not...
- So it has been a week since my stbx has contacted me. On one hand I'm grateful for the peace. On the other hand not having the reminder of the abuse (which shows up every time I communicate with him) allows me to forget/minimize it and I start to...
- I wanted to add to Rockinbunny's post, but my situation is a little different so I thought I'd create a new topic. I'm so glad Rockinbunny brought this up because I sometimes wonder if I was an abuser as well. I wonder if all the times I gave him...
- To all you ladies and gentlemen out there who experienced emotional abuse in their relationship...I'm noticing a weird (maybe not weird which is why I'm asking) side effect from my relationship and have actually noticed it for a while...the last...
- Sorry this is a bit long. So STBX did contact me while he was in the hospital, but did not ask me to come see him. He contacted me on Friday to tell me his surgery went well (that's fine, was happy for him) and then again on Saturday to apologize...
- So today is the day...stbx is in surgery right now. I'm not there (at the hospital), no idea what is going on or who is there with him. I know he doesn't deserve my support after kicking me to the curb and after everything he has done to me, but I...
- To all those out there that feel they have suffered some self esteem issues as a result of their break up or even before. I use an audio recording of self esteem affirmations that I play everyday, sometimes several times a day while I'm at work or...
- So I am approaching the end of week number two living apart from my stbx. I have posted on here recently about my fear of him contacting me from the hospital after his surgery tomorrow and me caving by going to help him. I am confident that I am...
- It's amazing to me how much he managed to cripple my self esteem. Imagine how ridiculous it was for me to feel guilty about not being there if he needed me when he was the one that left me, was the one that never supported me, that told me what an...
- My ex just texted me thanking me for being there for him while he was in the hospital for his first surgery...said he really appreciated it. I am afraid he is trying to butter me up so he can call on me for help after his surgery this Friday...will...
- My therapist told me this would happen, but based on how badly he treated me towards the end and how much he acted like he couldn't stand me and just wanted me out, I never believed it. It's only been a week since I've been out, and he's texting me...
- I've been in my new place for a week now and I remember posting a discussion before I moved asking for others experiences when they first moved out on their own again. I was scared because I didn't know how I would react...loneliness, crying,...
- Why does my STBX feel the need to villify me to all his friends and family? He is so angry, creating so much tension in the house and is acting like he hates me. He is the one that initiated the split. I am just trying to go about my life until...