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- Hi all! I've been away for a while...probably 8 months now. I was let go from my job last September and was finally in a position where I could prevent my ex from contacting me i.e. I had changed my phone number and personal email addresses, but...
- I am just spouting some verbal diarrhea here so I apologize in advance as well as thank those who are reading. Since I wrote him my final goodbye 2 weeks ago I have not heard from him. This is the longest he has gone without contacting me since we...
- I found this on a website that I cut and pasted onto my computer. This rings so true to me that I will read it every time I start to doubt my behavior in my relationship. I knew and believed all these things before him. I still can't believe he...
- So after almost 2 months of not responding to any of his attempts to contact me about stupid stuff (not getting back together), I filed for divorce last week. The next day I sent him a letter telling him I filed, what he needed to do, all the...
- Since my last post he has emailed me once or twice a week, mostly about stupid things like a shirt of mine he found if I want it etc. He emailed me on Saturday at 1:30 am to tell me that he missed the dog and was wondering if he could pick him up...
- So I told him it was over for good March 11. I told him if he didn't know by now if he wanted to try and save the marriage (do MC) then he would never know (he's been pushing and pulling for about 2 months). He said if he decided he wanted to save...
- This is something I think about a lot...probably too much. My H used to tell me whenever I tried to talk to him about the way I was feeling about the relationship that he felt I was holding him responsible for my happiness. He said on more than...
- So early last week we had our latest circular conversation about him wanting to go to marriage counselling but then practically in the same breath telling me he wasn't sure he wanted to be married to me. That was it! I had had it! I was tired of...
- I will bump my previous post for those who don't remember or are unfamiliar. Anyway, since our last convo where I asked for no contact and he ended the conversation calling me a f*ucking nut, the following happened:The next day (Feb 12):Him: Sorry...
- Anyone know of a good blocking app? I downloaded Mr. Number which does block the call or text, but the call or text gets logged within the app. I was kind of hoping for something that would block completely i.e. I wouldn't even have any way of...
- First I want to thank all those who responded to my last post. You are all so great, I don't know what I would do without all you guys. I heard what you said (wrote) and I was seriously considering telling my H I wanted to cut all contact for at...
- Some of you may have read in some of the posts I've made in others threads that my H came to me some time ago and said he thought deciding to split may have been a mistake. He wasn't in the right frame of mind at the time to make that decision, he...
- I was reading some recent posts on PTSD and did a bit of googling on it and I have to say that I think (and had suspected for a while) that my H has it stemming from his own childhood abuse (physically and emotionally abusive father, narc mother). ...
- So my H has his first appointment with a counsellor next Tuesday (coincidentally our anniversary, although I'm sure he won't remember). I'm still not optimistic anything will change, but after having a couple of conversations with him about it, I...
- Well, in typical fashion, my husband is asking for another chance, is going to go for therapy blah, blah, blah. I always told myself that if he was willing to go to therapy to better himself (and our marriage) I would give him that chance. I tell...