debbie7730
Status: Looking for the courage to get out of a toxic relationship.
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- My toxic relationship ended fairly drastically on Friday night and I just need to tell someone. My fiance and I have been fighting a lot, so I guess I should not be surprised that it ended. We had another fight over some small paranoid issue...
- Does anyone have any ideas about how to tackle the following issue. My ex husband lost his job and has been unemployed for four years. He refuses to get another job. Because I was the one with the full time job and all of the money --...
- I went through a divorce and it was somewhat traumatic. My sister and I talked every week. She was generally supportive, but in one conversation she was pushing me hard on getting my daughter into counseling. I was working on it, but had other...
- I am ending my first long term relationship since my divorce. I realize that I jumped into a new one too quickly and ended up in a relationship that was more toxic than my marriage that I worked so hard to end. I broke up with my new love last...
- So I made it through the divorce this year and have made it through a year on my own. I am so much happier now, but I am struggling with the co-parenting issue. My daughter is 8 and I share custody with him -- which is a total joke. He...
- So when my ex decided to send his expensive camera equipment to my door last week, I lost it with him, for the first time in a long time. All of the anger came back, since he is blowing my hard retirement money on himself and not giving a dime to...
- So my unemployed ex has not contributed a penny to our child's care, since we split 7 months ago. During our marriage, he also never contributed a dime to her private schooling or expense. Because he won't get a job, he managed to squeeze every...
- I recently got myself out of marriage with a depressed, unemployed spouse. We share custody, which has been problematic. After the divorce, he lived out of his car for six weeks, which pretty much gave me full custody (but I didn't modify the...
- So I finally got my ex out of the house and a signed agreement. I had to agree to joint custody to get out of him paying allimony and child support, which was not what I really wanted to do. I had a feeling that my unemployed ex would have a...
- Finally, some good news for me. After months of playing games, refusing to leave the house (and being an unemployed bum who refused to lift a finger to help around the house), my ex has signed a divorce settlement that will get him out of the...
- So after all the misery I have been through, I just found out that my ex has been reading my text messages. He pulls out the name of the guy that I have had a few dates with. Even on my phone, my date is just listed by his first name only and my...
- I am currently divorcing my husband of 15 years. He is unemployed, has few friends, and does not have a good relationship with his family. He has fallen into a deep depression that was aggrevated by his job loss a year ago and me divorcing...
- My ex has been a complete jerk about signing a divorce agreement. He knows that I desperately want to keep our daughter in a private school (because our public schools are a nightmare) and he is using this against me. He is unemployed and makes...
- I just had the most peaceful vacation in Colorado with my family and my daughter away from my soon-to-be ex (who is stilling living in my house). It was so nice to not have to face the tension and the stress of having him around -- especially since...
- Hi everyone, I just need to vent. I am having such a hard time coping. My unemployed ex did not leave the house after I filed divorce at the advice of his lawyer. He is unemployed, has never contributed money to the household, and worked up tons...