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  taking steps

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  Posted: 05/07/2017

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  so the penny has dropped my partner is never going to put me first its always going to be her aunt,sisters,mum and cousins etc. even when i most need her as soon im due in court and after that been warned i could basically be in danger she very begrudly agreed to stay at home with me instead of spending yet more time with her family.you see her family are on holiday that week the friday to the friday but from the tuesday thats when im in court so all i said was she had to stay at home thye rest...

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  Posted: 05/07/2017

  sweetpea222 commented on the discussion am i wrong for wanting loyalty and to be put first.

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  feeling desperate

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  Last Reply: Jersey_of_Oz 05/05/2017

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  let me try and explain both my partner and i suffer from mental illness my partner is bi polar. we started rowing about a month ago we had made a agreement to save our relationship back in january but she basically was trying to back out of it. nothing to difficult just we agreed that she would start putting me first before her sisters,mum,cousins etc. as she has never put me first. basically her two sisters was very annoyed at this and no doubt told my partner .all this agreement was ,was...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 05/04/2017

  sweetpea222 joined the group Depression.

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  New Friend

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  sweetpea222 became friends with Littlefestus3.

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  nothing changes

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  Posted: 05/04/2017

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  i see its been about a year since i last logged in. just been looking back through my journels and realised nothing has changed much.but looking back at my journels its made me realise why am i letting my partner emotionally destroy me and hurt me so much? the other day during a heated discussion she more or less admitted her family come before me so it seems after our discussion in january where i explained i needed her to prove she could put me first by no more over nights stays etc and she...

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  am i wrong for wanting loyalty and to be put first

  Posted by: sweetpea222

  Last Reply: Miek0 05/07/2017

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  ive been with my partner 6 years. in all that 6 years she has never put me first,she always put her sisters,mum,aunts etc before me . last year it got really bad ,i was in a really bad place mentally ,her sister rang wanting something and she was off and just said she was staying over that night . then her mum asked her to take some family members on a fly drive holiday as they couldnt drive ,this was for ten days,i was upset because i wasn't even invited. i'll try and keep this brief ok.so...

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  is my reason to shallow

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  Last Reply: darkside2276 05/11/2017

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  when i met my partner just over 5 years ago she made no secret she didnt do housework ,when she told me most of her relationships had broken up because of this i said to her that was shallow of her ex's and not a reason to break up with someone. but wow am i eating my words now. i didnt know the extent of this not doing housework was. she dont do a thing to help. cooks the occasional meal washed up about 4 times in the time we been together. spends her time in bed(in the daytime to) on her pc...

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  in so much pain

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  Last Reply: Sarah1986 09/02/2016

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  i have oesto arthritis in my knee. i had a injection a few weeks ago in it to help.my doctor told me to rest it for a couple of days to give the injection time to work. but my partner refused to help me at all.it was 3 days before we was due to go on holiday and as you can guess alot to do. my knee has got worse. my elder brother wanted a wardrobe and bed from my lates aunts house i kept telling him i couldnt help get them down the steep stairs but he just ignored me saying i would be alright....

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  question to you all with partners.

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  Last Reply: Blond1 09/04/2016

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  ok i guess we have all at one time or another been in a relationship where there is one particular member of your partners family you can not stand for whatever reason or probably more than one member you can not stand. so how have you handled it? smiled sweetly just to go with the flow.avoided that family member whenever possible?which risks rows with partner.after a few explanations as to why i did not want a member of my partners family to come along with us to show ,i got so frustrated i...

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  was i right to cut son out of my will

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  Last Reply: Rebel 08/22/2016

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  i lost my aunt last year i was very close to her. my middle son before she died was going on and on about her will,i have mental illness and i cracked under stress and told him my aunt had left him and his 2 brothers 3000 each to to get him to shut up at that time she had left them that amount. then shortly before she had a big stroke she wanted to change her will her partner of 22 years had walked out on her . i was doing the running about for her arranging the solicitor etc. the day before...

• Personality Disorders
  

  don't know how to handle these emotions.

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  Last Reply: piks 06/30/2016

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  i have borderline personality disorder ,diagnosed in 2007. i seem not to be able to handle relationships . my last relationship i ended after 9 years of financial and mental abuse but also because she started putting her family before me the final straw was after the hospital thought i had had 2 suspected heart attacks but 2 weeks later she said she was off to visit her parents and her little neice for a week i either came with her or let my parents look after me.it was a 300 mile journey to...

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  i'm scared alone

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  Last Reply: aprilmillett88 06/29/2016

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  i have bpd with abandonment issues among other things .i'm 55 and have never spent more than two days on my own. when i met my partner she was aware of this. but when her family wanted to take them abroad as they cant drive(i wasnt invited) she never even asked would i be ok on my own for 10 days. i never said much ,i mean what could i say. she went yesterday to pick this uncle up to go back to her aunts then they all was going to the airport today on this fly drive holiday. i had two phone...