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- I just met with my therapist. I talked with her about my two weeks of being back together with my husband which I mentioned in other posts.She told me that she does not see how marriage counseling is going to work if my husband is constantly...
- I have done something very similar to Illene's clarifying index cards but I am still really struggling with seeing things as I think they are because I am second guessing myself.It is really crazy how just one month ago I was so clear headed and saw...
- My husband has not said once that he emotionally abused me and since spelling out to him that he emotionally abused me he has yet to say anything to me, nor has he brought up the term again or apologized for the abuse.Does an abuser have to admit...
- Hi! =(I hope everyone is well. Thought I would post an update. I should have listened to my therapist (I think), We got back together last Tuesday and agreed to go to marriage counseling and try to work on things. I really never want to think...
- Hi. I don't even know how to say this. I hope I can still talk with you all after telling you this. Sorry for the length.Wednesday was our mediation to finalize the paperwork for our divorce.A little back history from the last couple of weeks.My...
- Hi Everyone, Its been a while since I posted. Been very busy, things are moving along with my divorce. We are actually set for mediation on Wednesday. We have agreed on everything and have been very civil.I am starting to have a panic attack. I...
- Hi Everyone, it has been a couple weeks since my last post. Hope everyone is doing well. A lot of things have happened for the better for me but there is still the guilt being given and I just want to be sure that I am not over thinking or second...
- I am struggling today... Why do I feel so guilty? ='(All was going well, his constant badgering (As sick as it sounds was really keeping my head straight with knowing that my choice to leave is still the right one).Until last night..... He was...
- Hi Again!I have a question. If anyone has any insight it would be much appreciated.So as suspected any chance at an amicable of ending my marriage is out the window dispite my husband being a CPA and telling me he wants to be financially smart if...
- Hi Everyone, hope you all had a great weekend.I went to my moms this weekend with the kids, was great getting away from the madness.After my husbands constant badgering when I told him I talked to an attorney I stopped talking about it all together....
- I have been having a rough few days..... He has been constantly hounding me about fixing the marriage, blah blah blah.....He just said the following statement to me and I almost fell to the floor....... I don't even know what to say...He told me...
- Hi Everyone, hope you all had a wonderful Easter.I don't even know where to being........ Forgive me if I jump around, I will really try not to. ***SORRY FOR THE LENGTH***For the last 1 to 2 weeks I have been doing my best to stay clear of my...
- I took a mental health day today. My husband has been emotionally and mentally exhausting me with his constant lack of my boundries and lack of empathy he has for me. NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING I say or do to prove to him that I am completely...
- I don't know why but for some reason I think my husband may be behind this. A little history, at the beginning of this year I started talking to someone online, very innocent, just talking, well the more we talked the more we started having...
- It has become clear to me that it does not matter what I think or how many times I say something. My husband has fully removed his acceptance of emotional abuse and has shifted it to "lack of communication" and pinning it on my "perception of...