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Child support - what to do

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Good morningI haven't been on here in forever. I am doing really great! So many changes since I was last here....Anyway, the point of the post. I received a letter from the state yesterday asking if I have received child support payments directly...
Found an old journal....

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Last night I was going through some things in my room and I found an old journal. I didn't actually do a LOT of writing in it, however, what little I did write said a WHOLE lot about where I was. It was from the beginning of the end of my marriage....
updates - forever since I have been on

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It has been a very long time since I have been here. I kind of hit a point where I needed a break; reading posts made me feel very raw so I needed to back away.I am doing pretty well. Things in my life are happy. My oldest daughter is expecting her...
having a pity party and need help

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I need someone to give me a firm kick in the pants today.My oldest daughter with the ex is in town from college. She got here Thursday night and spent the night with me. Then yesterday I worked, and when I got home she was at dinner with her dad. I...
Situation and I need advice

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I am going to TRY to keep this as simple as possible ( I tend to ramble with my thoughts sometimes)I don't know if anyone has gone through this but would appreciate advice. Please don't bash me, I don't think I can take it. Firm, but no bashing....
checking in

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I must say I don't get on here as much lately. I felt I needed a bit of a break, sometimes I find it sets me back a bit with triggers (some of the things people are going through)But in my life I am doing well. I am dating although nobody seriously...
Good morning everyone!!!

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haven't been around here in a while. I am going to catch up on everyone's comings and goings and then...I have a lunch date! Yes, I am a little excited. First real type of date since I separated. Seems completely normal with a great sarcastic sense...
I need a kick in the pants!

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lol. I feel like I have let myself derail over the last few days. Just generally down in the dumps and having a pity party. I really don't like when I do this but I haven't been able to identify WHY I do it. It just creeps up on me. I was in my...
Dear Ex

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Although I might be sad at times, get lonely or angry at times...i look back on the memories shattered by your infidelity and hatred and awful words and you really SUCKED as a husband. I will get through this but you will still be who you are!That...
Favorite Quotes that uplift

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I feel like we could all use a little lift so I am going to start with a couple of my favorite quotes and sayings!"She packed up her potential and all that she had learned, grabbed a cute pair of shoes and headed out to change a few things" (silly...
Information question for ya

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do you ever run into people that you might not have seen for a while and upon finding out you're getting divorced offer up "information" on your ex or stbx? This is what has happened to me..."oh yes, remember that time we were all out at xxx...
Another goes to counseling...

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Seems to be the trending matter right now.I had made an appointment to try and get my life back on track. She is a psychotherapist and life coach and I have seen her in the past...We caught up on my life and she has determined that 1) he is a...
1 year ago today

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I received my final divorce papers in the mail. It was an ugly night to say the least.Flash forward, I put the final closure on feelings and expectations last night. I am at peace. I am ready to close that part of my life once and for all. I had...
They don't really change

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Tonight I found out that the ex has a matchcom account. This is all while he is being overly "friendly" with me. I haven't given in or fallen for it or even believed it. I am smarter now. But he asked my best girlfriend for a number of a girl she...
Relationship lonely

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I don't think I have ever really posted on this board but I enjoy being a part of it. I was married for 23 years. Actually saw a divorce attny on my 23 wedding anniversary. My H had two affairs, the second being during the time of separation and...