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- I am feeling so confused about just everything. I am trying so hard to get my feet back underneath me and to figure out who I am, but...I do not know how to help my family understand that while I'm okay, I'm not okay. I have done stupid things...
- He got suspended jail time and court-ordered therapy.I got to walk out of the court room with my head up (no matter the swirling emotion inside) and even found the courage to talk to my family, who for the first time EVER actually did help me with...
- The court date is tomorrow. The victim advocate is not sure what the prosecutor is going to decide to do, said she was deciding at the last minute.The ex is threatening to file some kind of discrimination case against the county because the officer...
- It has been a long few days, been pretty much stuck in the house with a snow storm. I went to the grocery store Thursday night to get last minute items before it got bad and the next thing I know, he is in the store asking me about some kind of...
- After my stbx returned to the country, he sent a very polite text asking if it was okay to return to the old property to get the remainder of his things. He wanted to make sure there were no restrictive orders etc. that he was unaware of. I told...
- Well, the time for my stbx's flight to land came and went about 30 minutes ago. I am definitely on that roller coaster of emotion. The relief that he didn't call, the hurt that he didn't call.I'm hanging in so far. I'm emotional and crying, but...
- Update from the first week out in the new place and where I am tonight. It helped that I started back to classes this week and was getting things organized in the new place. It was difficult getting to sleep and I had several moments of just...
- My feelings this evening:My first marriage - physical abuse, walked away with the clothes on my back and nothing else.My second marriage - sexually abused our daughter, he wiped out our accounts before being arrested (wasting it all on defense and...
- The kids and I are enjoying the peace and quiet at the new place, and the ex is out of the country for another two weeks. However, he has made threats over the telephone and I am trying to be prepared for when he does return. At this point, he...
- I finally got the kids and I moved to our new place today and so I'm tired, but happy we are here. So, my work and school require that I have an internet connection, which will not be in the new place for five more days. At the old house, the only...
- As I saw in another post about being on your own for more than a minute, I wanted to ask advice about what kind of boundaries are healthy for moving on. Obviously, I know not to jump into another serious relationship any time soon and that I need...
- As I have started to either regain or make new friends and meet new people, I find that I am so paranoid. The ex played so many games, doing inappropriate behavior on purpose to see how I would respond and then if I responded making me feel like a...
- You know, when I left my physically violent husband, I walked out without a backward glance. Of course, I was young and the craziness of his abuse so apparent (requiring 3 surgeries). After 12 years with my kids' dad, although there was so much...
- Hi all, I am new here and feel I have a million things to say, but for now I will stick to just a little background. I am on my third marriage and currently separated. My first husband was physically and emotionally abusive, my second sexually...
- The abuse of my daughter (now 15) by her father was disclosed in 2006. After browsing the discussions, I have to be thankful that we did not have to fight the system just to be safe and feel for all of you that are in that situation. The...