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- Hello All,I feel a bit like Im hijacking this forum but I dont know where else to turn. I myself am not a widower however I am madly in love with and soon to be marrying a widow. I feel love for her that I never knew existed. She is an amazing woman...
- Well one thing is for certain: I suck at being single. Oh where to start. As I have gone througb many times before, I was with my stbx for nearly 20 years and married for 15. Many good times many bad and now things between us are to the point of no...
- Wow. I just realized its been nearly a month since Ive been on here. Thats way to long. I have moved into my apartment and love it. The kidos love it as well. They have already taken advantage of many of the activities offered. I had been doing...
- I think I have dealt. (for the most part ) with the fact that it was her plan from the begining to leave me and tear apart our family for another man whom she still barely knows.I have been tear free for over a...
- i attended my first Divorce Care meeting last night. I think its going to be great for me. Its a pretty small group, but the leaders said that the numbers can fluctuate a bit as the course goes on. Its so nice to be in a room and able to talk to...
- I hate what this ordeal has done to me as a person. I am normally the most happy go lucky person you will ever meet. I almost never got stressed, always friendly and compassionate toward others. These days Im an...
- My anger toward her has returned YAY! As you know she spends a lot of nights at his house. When she does that during the week she comes home early the next morning to get the littles ready for school. I have to leave for work well before they...
- I am so frustrated and done with this wet blanket feeling. I have a ton going on in my life right now. I am a few weeks away from having my own living space for the first time in my life. I have four very busy, active and enjoyable kids. I work a...
- A common theme when reaserching the "benefits" of divorce is that it allows you to find or get to know "your true self" or " grow as an individual". My stbx has used these phrases alot in our discussions over the past few months. My problem is, I...
- Im so confused these days. For the past few weeks I have been so indifferent toward her. Like if I never saw her again it would be great. Now for the past few days I cant imagine how Im going to live without her. I miss so much all of the little...
- Ive been doing great for weeks. Ready to grab single life by the horns and ride off into the sunset, and then yesterday happened. Hearing her admit to having feelings for another man was something I was unprepared for. Ive known in my heart for a...
- Telling the kids went better than I expected. There were plenty of tears of course but overall they are ok. We talked for a while and then drove over to where we will be living when they are with me. By the end of the night the two youngest were...
- We met today to go over fave to face how the talk with kids is going to go tonight. We were about ready to leave and I asked what I intened as an innocent question regarding her possibly getting relocated through her job and if she would be willing...
- Were finally going to tell the kids on Tuesday. Any advice is welcome. Ive been fine for a while now, but with this upcoming Im a wreck again. My only hope is that they dont go through the pain I endured for months. Im scared to death. I know...
- For the most part I have become indifferent to her affair, but at times it still bothers me. She sent me a text tonight saying she'd decided to stay there again tonight. I had expected nothing different despite what she'd said all day about coming...