Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
A common theme when reaserching the "benefits" of divorce is that it allows you to find or get to know "your true self" or " grow as an individual". My stbx has used these phrases alot in our discussions over the past few months.
My problem is, I dont know how to start looking for my true self, or even what that means. I feel like I know what my likes and dislikes are but beyond that.....
Im not an incredibly philosophical person, so this subject is a little out of my wheel house. I understand growing as a person. I have many things I need to work on and will continue to do so.
I know that many of you are very well versed, thought out individuals so I thought this would be a good place to start before hitting the google trail.
Also doing it in my recovery work. None of it is easy.
I need to find my wants and desires in life. Who do i
Want to be? What would make me happy inside?
It all takes time you have young ones so your life
With them will just go along. You have said you lost
80 pounds and are working out, that is a huge sign
Of growth. Much more changing and growing will
Come of that alone. The wanting of doing physical
Things with your children and others.
Keep up the inside work we all Need help in there.
This stuff is hard to move thru and Recover from. Its
deep and eats at our core. HUGS