Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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cavahoo1215 09/27/2016

I hate what this ordeal has done to me as a person. I am normally the most happy go lucky person you will ever meet. I almost never got stressed, always friendly and compassionate toward others. These days Im an angry,depressed,spitefull,jaded,zombie of a mess.

I had therapy today which was great. I did a lot of venting and felt good leaving the office. When I got inbthe car I saw a text she had sent me. It was basiclally her asking me if I would give up my nights(tonight and tomorrow) so she could go workout with him at their gym......Good feelings gone! This of course started a texting war that went on for a while.

The thing that i was most dissapointed about was my reaction when it was all over. I found myself hoping that someday he breaks her heart like she has done mine. What a terrible thought to have. To wish this pain on someone else is not something I thought I would ever do. Thankfully I didnt tell her that because I wouldve found myself apologizing for another spontaneous outburst of anger. I hate this whole terrible process.

mirandac 09/27/2016

She sounds a little Worse than the usual ones
on here. I dont Get her constantly pushing her
bad behaviors.

Even i would like to have a go at her and i am
Very peaceful easy going person normally. My
Ex was bad, though we did not live together after
Divorce and seperation were discussed. He did
Not rub salt in my wounds either so i guess he
had A little morality and decency left inside.

Maybe i was just spared this pain and torture
You are going thru. I know she does not want
To see you, i get that, but you need money too.
That is reality and life with a family and house.

I guess when you are in the pink cloud nothing
Matters but your own pleasures. HUGS

samantha717 09/27/2016

She sounds like a narcissist, like my stbx. They don't value other human beings at all. They are completely self-centered and filter EVERYTHING through what it will do for them. They're a lot like toddlers ... they want what they want when they want and they don't care who has to sacrifice what to give it to them. I know what you're feeling because I am feeling much the same. I think it's the stress and fatigue building. I keep trying to focus on where I think I'll be in a year instead of the pain and anger I'm feeling now ... not always successful though.

elbrojps 09/27/2016

Yeah, the tough thing here is that you're forced to thinking about her instead of dealing with yourself. And that part is hard enough without interference, right?

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