Were finally going to tell the kids on Tuesday. Any advice  is welcome. Ive been fine for a while now, but with this upcoming Im a wreck again. My only hope is that they dont go through the pain I endured for months. Im scared to death. I know there were days when the only thing that kept me from doing something terrible to myself was them and the pain I would be putting them through. Now here I am, having to tell them that their world as theyve known it is about to be torn apart.  I have no idea how they will react or how I will react to seeing them in pain. Oh I hate her so much for doing this to us. She still seems to think everything will be fine. Thats easy to say when she's been fine through all of this. Why wouldnt she be. She is getting what she wanted all along. I wish she wouldve never come back from the "business" trip that started all of this. We all would have been better off.