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• Widows & Widowers
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Posted: 12/18/2017

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Not sure where to go.

• Widows & Widowers
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Posted: 12/18/2017

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Not sure where to go.

• Widows & Widowers
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Posted: 12/18/2017

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Not sure where to go.

• Widows & Widowers
  

  Not sure where to go

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Last Reply: shewearsblack17 12/18/2017

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  Hello All,I feel a bit like Im hijacking this forum but I dont know where else to turn. I myself am not a widower however I am madly in love with and soon to be marrying a widow. I feel love for her that I never knew existed. She is an amazing woman and I am so thankful to have her in my life.  She has always made me feel special and never makes me special and I have never doubted for a second that she is happy that we are together. My problem is that from time to time things come up...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Posted: 12/17/2017

  cavahoo1215 joined the group Widows & Widowers.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 11/06/2016

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Losing my mind: just have to vent.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Losing my mind: just have to vent

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Last Reply: kbbcoop77 11/07/2016

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  Well one thing is for certain: I suck at being single. Oh where to start. As I have gone througb many times before, I was with my stbx for nearly 20 years and married for 15. Many good times many bad and now things between us are to the point of no return ( at least in her opinion). Before I met her I had another girlfriend who loved me with all of her heart and I loved her as well. We were each others first love, first kiss, first everything. We were also both very young and I decided that I...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 09/03/2016

  cavahoo1215 became friends with kbbcoop77.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/28/2016

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Long overdue update.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/28/2016

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Long overdue update.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/27/2016

  cavahoo1215 commented on the discussion Long overdue update.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Long overdue update

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Last Reply: cavahoo1215 10/28/2016

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  Wow. I just realized its been nearly a month since Ive been on here. Thats way to long. I have moved into my apartment and love it. The kidos love it as well. They have already taken advantage of many of the activities offered. I had been doing really good. Very little sadness. Lots to keep me busy and things to focus on. Notice I used the "had". This week has been one of the worst I have ever experienced. Firstly the kids have been with her this week. I miss them so much. My apartment feels...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Just an update

  Posted by: cavahoo1215

  Last Reply: mirandac 10/07/2016

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  I think I have dealt.                         (for the most part ) with the fact that it was her plan from the begining to leave me and tear apart our family for another man whom she still barely knows.I have been tear free for over a week now, and most days have been pretty good. Some sadness started creeping in today, but I just kept busy and it went away for now. There are days when I hate her. Everyday I hate him, and some days when Im just indifferent to the whole mess. I...

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  Divorce care

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  Last Reply: mirandac 09/29/2016

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  i attended my first Divorce Care meeting last night. I think its going to be great for me. Its a pretty small group, but the leaders said that the numbers can fluctuate a bit as the course goes on. Its so nice to be in a room and able to talk to people going through the same emotions I am. Next weeks topic is dealing with anger. I can really use that one. 

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 09/26/2016

  cavahoo1215 became friends with zuzuspetals.