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  Posted: 09/11/2025

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• Breakups & Divorce
  

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• Breakups & Divorce
  

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  Posted: 08/08/2025

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion Husband was Cheating.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Husband was Cheating

  Posted by: jokiwhau

  Last Reply: MrCellophane 01/09/2026

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  I remember joining this forum back in 2014 when I was going through a divorce after 19 years of marriage.  I got remarried in 2018 and here I am again. I discovered a few weeks back that my husband was cheating both physically with someone as well as sexting multiple other women.  I found this out early July and kept it a secret until he left for a week on a trip.  I spent weeks pretending everything was fine and faking illnesses so he would stay away from me.  When he finally left for his...

• Life After Divorce
  

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  Posted: 09/29/2016

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion Illness After Divorce.

• Life After Divorce
  

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  Posted: 09/19/2016

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• Life After Divorce
  

  Illness After Divorce

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  Last Reply: PeaceHarmony2 10/30/2016

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  Has anyone had to deal with an ex getting really sick after a divorce?  I have been divorced 3 years now, and just found out this week that my ex-husband probably has terminal cancer.  He is going back to the oncologist next week for final diagnosis.  Our kids are not handling this well (kids are grown, 24, 21, 18).  I don't know how involved I should get???My ex and I don't really talk, but I have texted him to let him know he can call me if he needs anything.  I spent 25 years with this...

• Healthy Sex
  

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  Posted: 08/29/2016

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion I hate being intimate with my husband.

• Healthy Sex
  

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  Posted: 08/29/2016

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion Have you used dating sites?.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 08/17/2016

  jokiwhau became friends with victor.

• Healthy Sex
  

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  Posted: 08/16/2016

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion ED.

• Life After Divorce
  

  It DOES get better!

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  Last Reply: nathalie 09/10/2016

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  I just wanted to post something positive.  :-)After divorcing 3 years ago, I never EVER thought I would be able to trust another man or be in a relationship again.  Lucky for me, I have someone in my life who loves me and is exactly what I want in a partner.  Keep your chin up - I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I finally found my prince!  Don't give up peeps!  :-)

• Codependency
  

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  Posted: 08/11/2016

  jokiwhau commented on the discussion Realisation…..