Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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  • victor

    ED

    Anyone with ED (erectile dysfunction) is afraid of initiating a sexual relationship? I know there are some understanding partners and Viagra and such. But I don't feel like a man much anymore. Comments?
  • I have to be honest and admit that I have on several occasions, and yes I'm male and an engineer, so it stands to reason that I would :) made a male vibrator from an old aquuarium diaphagm air pump, modified a vibrator for my ex gf too, it was like a hammer dril in action, but it had the desired results :) was thinking about making a sybian type thing once over......
  • I’m just curious what everybody thinks about this. I was recently dumped from a really short and infrequent relationship but I’m kinda beat up about it. When you’re in a new relationship and the sex is awkward or not great, do you usually give it a few times to see what the deal is? Or, if it’s awkward and not great the first time do you give it a second chance or are...
  • i know this will start a lively conversation.but nobody's saying anything on any support groups anywhere about this, so i thought i'd throw out a hot topic. but read it all, there's some quirky wisdom in it. loli'd quit watching porn for a while. now in moderation i do watch. my wife doesn't want sex again and i'm not dead. loland i've enjoyed it.but i've discovered something. clothed or nude, i...
  • vjh_1989

    Want to try new things

    I've always been curious about bdsm. I've brought it up with my significant other, I think where we are going to have issues is we're both submissive behind closed doors. I mean I can be dominant if I have to or the rare mood strikes me. But I've brought up things like cold play, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, prolonged penetration. He always says he's interested and curious as well. But...
  • In March I started dating an older man after many years without a sexual or emotional relationship. It was difficult (physically and psychologically) opening myself up and sharing. His demands were excessive and still are. He was 81 (soon to be 82) and I'm 70. When I met him I was hoping for companionship mostly. Instead I got a man who brags that he's like a teenager!! Meanwhile, I'm LIKE A...
  • Ok so I apologize if I get explicit. I mean I think any discussion about sex is for the purpose of "healthy sex" so here goes...Recently my SO and I have started having anal sex a lot more often than before. It used to be like a once a year, if even that, kind of thing, but now im more comfortable with it and truly enjoy it. Its only been his fingers and him but never toys. Idk what to expect? I...
  • ManDown

    Penis Size

    Ladies I've seen it before on here so I know size doesn't matter. yep, I understand that. But truly if you're dating a new guy and he is small when you first undo his pants or get with him or feel him up do you inwardly cringe? Are you truthfully hoping it's going to be big in your mind or at least you're hoping it's not going to be small? And how about when he's flaccid? If he's like an...
  • hopesmiles

    advice

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    i have been with my fiancee for 1 year and half and it has been 10 months since we have had sex. i am 36 and he is 41. he says that he is tired, stressed out and has no drive or want to even have sex. now he has ptsd from the military im sure depression to but he refuses to take meds. he says he dont even think about sex. now it makes me think im not attractive. he has asked me to marry him but...
  • Not entirely sure how explicit i can be on this site but really need some advice.In march i started talkig to a guy online i vaguely knew from school. Id bumped into a few times whilst out and he would always message to say itnwas nice to see me. This all started about 4-5 months ago. Very sweet and charming..i thought he was incred7bly shy at first ..i had to make the firat move to meet...
  • hi , i dont know how to start this topic of small penises. im a larger girl and my fience and i are so much in love but hes smaller then average were so limited to sex positions because they just dont work i finally mentioned to him i was curous in finding out about penis enlargement so we can enjoy eachother to the full potentail we have. so my question is does anyone know about enlarging...
  • lostsoul72

    Accomplishments

    I try very hard to please the woman in my life and bed. I am just curious about something that happened with my last lover. After making love every time she would lay there and snuggle for about a 1/2 hour. The funny thing is she would tremble the entire time.Made me proud to please her so much.
  • I have only been married for 2.5 years, and I am beginning to loathe sex and even cuddling with my husband. When he goes for the upper deck I feel so dirty and repulsed. His kisses are hot and disgusting as his spit gets all over my mouth, and I have breathing in his hot breath. But physically I'm not right either anymore... Let's just say it's like laying with a brillo pad from being so dry. If...
  • Are there any good free dating sites out there? All I see are a bunch of pervs on the sites I have gone to, who can't get past the 2nd post without wanting to hook up.i tried a paid website a few years ago, but that was just as bad. I'm not even sure I want to find someone, I was just looking around to see if there was anyone out there to even have conversations with. Blah, it's awful.
  • I am a married 58 year old "bi" guy. Most of my experiences were with men; however, I have been married 14 years to a wonderful woman but I just don't feel a "click" romantically or physically any longer and I have found a few males that I enjoy (unreciprocated) sexual experiences with. The problem is that I can't climax when I am with another person and only when taking my problems "well in...