Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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  • phoenixfire88

    Boyfriend is into diapers

    Hi, So I've been with my BF almost 6 months. I'm 27, he's 24. We have not had sex. I contracted HSV 1 from a former partner, he has a 3-5 in 100 chance of getting it. Says hes ok with it, I'm on medicine, he says he'll use condoms. He was in the military, has PTSD. he finds that "regressing" helps him cope. So he wears diapers and likes to be treated like a child. At first he told me he just wore...
  • thumper1

    Weekends = Play time!

    There's a song, I'm sure most of you know it, it's been around a few years now but it always seems appropriate, especially on weekends...It's by the Black Eyed Peas..."I've gotta a feeling! That tonight's gonna be a good night.."May a little Nakey time find us all and to each a good, good night! Have a great weekend everybody!
  • Patricia1983

    Ice queen

    I got divorced 4 years ago and I have not really dated that much. Shortly after I was separated I was with someone and I really didn't feel any chemistry so I broke up with him. Now I've started seeing this guy and things seemed great at first I love just being touched. It felt nice just to feel something. Now it seems like I have a hard time with being aroused or being into it. I go through the...
  • des10ed2b

    gay or masturbating?

    big debate at work. lol. yes, i have a strange work environment.okay, so, lets say a guy is alone and masturbating. He plays with his butt, either with a dildo, fingers, or masturbating? help us settle this. Also, put your gender. That seems to play a part in the view on this! lol.
  • FirstTracks84

    Sex in a New Relationship

    I’m just curious what everybody thinks about this. I was recently dumped from a really short and infrequent relationship but I’m kinda beat up about it. When you’re in a new relationship and the sex is awkward or not great, do you usually give it a few times to see what the deal is? Or, if it’s awkward and not great the first time do you give it a second chance or are...
  • csajourney

    Anxiety Issues - Attn: Men

    I am a married 58 year old "bi" guy. Most of my experiences were with men; however, I have been married 14 years to a wonderful woman but I just don't feel a "click" romantically or physically any longer and I have found a few males that I enjoy (unreciprocated) sexual experiences with. The problem is that I can't climax when I am with another person and only when taking my problems "well in...
  • EMP88364

    I hate being intimate with my husband

    I have only been married for 2.5 years, and I am beginning to loathe sex and even cuddling with my husband. When he goes for the upper deck I feel so dirty and repulsed. His kisses are hot and disgusting as his spit gets all over my mouth, and I have breathing in his hot breath. But physically I'm not right either anymore... Let's just say it's like laying with a brillo pad from being so dry. If...
  • hopesmiles


    i have been with my fiancee for 1 year and half and it has been 10 months since we have had sex. i am 36 and he is 41. he says that he is tired, stressed out and has no drive or want to even have sex. now he has ptsd from the military im sure depression to but he refuses to take meds. he says he dont even think about sex. now it makes me think im not attractive. he has asked me to marry him but...
  • Mickr4710

    Penis to big

    Can i get a penis reduction without losing feeling? My penis is 11 inches and almost as fat as a pringles can. Many women turn it down once they touch it.
  • hi , i dont know how to start this topic of small penises. im a larger girl and my fience and i are so much in love but hes smaller then average were so limited to sex positions because they just dont work i finally mentioned to him i was curous in finding out about penis enlargement so we can enjoy eachother to the full potentail we have. so my question is does anyone know about enlarging...
  • vjh_1989

    Want to try new things

    I've always been curious about bdsm. I've brought it up with my significant other, I think where we are going to have issues is we're both submissive behind closed doors. I mean I can be dominant if I have to or the rare mood strikes me. But I've brought up things like cold play, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, prolonged penetration. He always says he's interested and curious as well. But...
  • MsViv

    Have you used dating sites?

    Are there any good free dating sites out there? All I see are a bunch of pervs on the sites I have gone to, who can't get past the 2nd post without wanting to hook up.i tried a paid website a few years ago, but that was just as bad. I'm not even sure I want to find someone, I was just looking around to see if there was anyone out there to even have conversations with. Blah, it's awful.
  • mossk


    is anyone here hypersexual? have you gone to therapy for it? I'm currently in therapy for numerous reasons, being hypersexual primarily and when not having sex I'm anxious and jittery, it's annoying. I only feel calm during sex, never before or after.I started having sex willingly at 14 and have had probably 32 partners in the past 5 years, always protected and seems to be more frequent since...
  • victor


    Anyone with ED (erectile dysfunction) is afraid of initiating a sexual relationship? I know there are some understanding partners and Viagra and such. But I don't feel like a man much anymore. Comments?
  • sexysub56


    Is there a group where members can post their erotic writings?