Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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  • des10ed2b

    when you are utterly exhausted...

    i never thought that i would get to the point in my life where i would simply be TOO TIRED to have sex. My husband and i have been together nearly 13 years and save for times of illness, that time of the month, after child birth, etc we have had sex pretty much daily. The times we couldnt, i would get him to finish in some way.Fast forward. In the passed year my husband had a transplant and was...
  • Belmondo

    I am worried

    I am a 38 year old male who has now been in a relationship for 9 years (I am now married). I have had issues with erectile dysfunction off and on for the same period. I have been to many doctors and have been on testosterone treatment (I had low testosterone), cialis etc. All the doctors I have been to say that there is nothing wrong physically with me; the problems are more mental in nature. I...
  • StephJ77

    Post Hysterectomy problem

    Good morning all.  I had to have a full hysterectomy in March, 2015.  It seems the doctor took more than my baby making apparatus.  He took my desire and all my sexual desire.  I had a very high sex drive before the surgery, now I cringe at the thought of being intimate.  My husband is a wonderful man.  Love him very much.  We never argue, we never have angry words..ever.  But when it...
  • Bobby_K

    Need to unload sexual guilt and shame

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  • frustratedANDconfusedinNC


    My BF has Ed but has an extremely high libido. He expects me to perform oral sex on his  flaccid penis every day.  He gets angry and irrational when I don't do it. Does anyone else have an issue similar to this? Please help! 
  • dyinginside35

    Possible fwb

    i met this guy on tinder, i have shown him pics and hes attracted. In a way i want more than just a fwb but is it wrong to #*&^ im afraid to meet him cuz how he may reject me in person. I want to be more than fwb but at the same time i have my needs, im worried about coming off as a slut though
  • simpleman4321

    what's wrong with me

    I don't to offend anyone, but I'm getting tired of getting bashed for being truthful. I cannot divorce my wife who will not talk or have sex. All I'm here for is to talk and be a friend to ladies who are also having problems or are lonely like me.
  • dyinginside35

    Omg incredible

    Well last night i decided to meet  this guy. We were both extremely attracted to one another. We had dinner and talked. One thing led to another we were naked in the shower, he soaped me up and did everything to focus on me, i got sensitive.  Next thing i know i was blindfolded  and strapped to his bed posts. Hottest night ive ever had he used ice on me omg.  I was submissive and got on my...
  • soccerbrent43

    orgasms better with masturbation or sex

    My question of the day
  • MaryContrary

    Waiting for new "toy"

    I never had a toy that looked real before but I ordered one a couple of weeks ago.  I named it after a good friend.Had a silver bullet that broke.  I loved the pulsations it gave.  The new one is supposed to do that.  Not impatient you understand but I wish that fricken thing would hurry up and get here!!!!!
  • dyinginside35


    Why did i let myself become so unattractive 
  • GAPDaTsar

    what to do

    I'm dying to have intercourse. Stimulating myself is no longer enough. I can't take being alone any longer and sex toys to me are extremely ineffective as I unfortunately figured out from experience. I also have very cruddy orgasms that last no more than one second, literally. Despite I'm only 19, I can't stand being lonely and without a mate anymore. It had led me to depression, despair,...
  • dyinginside35

    The girls

    I love sex, and i see other women that wear low cut shirts that slow their cleavage and im always afraid to show mine. Whenever i show mine i always want to cover up, how can i fix that? Other women: is there a way to show them if your in between small and large chested? I wish i was more endowed.
  • simpleman4321


    In a almost sexless marriage, should I not consider masturbation as a sexual release?
  • GAPDaTsar

    lonely and desperate

    can't explain this well but I'm extremely tired of being alone. I seriously need some help. I can't stand all the hormones. They are nearly uncontrollable and they at starting to cause a bunch of problems around other people. My kinks/fetishes are starting to creep to other people including relatives and I'm beginning to appear very problematic to other people. I'm starting to think of hormone...