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- ES has called me and said I've got a new phone and you're not getting the number. I said ok, whatever you want. I guess he thought he'd make me cry. Although I did cry later on when no one was around. Not that I tried to call often, maybe once...
- I've been sent a bunch of bad emails again today from es' girlfriend about how bad a mother I was for choosing my husband over my son. I told her she was wrong in her thoughts but I wished her well. I told her our conversations were over.
- My older son that I do see and help out with money, groceries, etc. posted on my es's facebook telling him how he doesn't blame him for not wanting to be around us. He said I had a mental problem and how he hates my husband, as much as we have done...
- Received another text from son, saying you can come to the wedding if you leave dad home and I'll call the police if he tries to come. Almost like they want some trouble. I said I love you and want to come badly but you know dad will want to come...
- Last summer before the estrangement I found a lovely, formal dress that I found at a wonderful sale. We don't have a lot of money but we were going to make sure we did our part for the wedding, even if we had to borrow the money from the bank (but...
- I have tried for 26 years to be nice to my grown stepdaughter. She just hates me and there is nothing I can do about it. We buy her, her husband and children gifts, babysit on a moment's notice, take grandchildren to the doctor, take them all out...
- Just sad today thinking of all the events in my es life I'm missing and going to miss in the coming months. Even if God performs a miracle I'll still never get these back. Sad.
- It seems like my es is going even further away since we last saw him six months ago. He used to answer an email, now and then but now when I try to touch base with him, he sounds increasingly uncaring. He used to sort of be kind to me in his...
- My es sent me an email again yesterday saying that I will have to leave his dad home if I ever want to see him again. I have tried to be the go-between for them and it is not working. My husband has today sent another apology for things my son is...
- Just found out my es is teaching a Sunday School class. How can you teach Sunday School, attend church and Christian college and not agree to see your parents? After we have begged and pleaded. How can this be? I don't understand it.
- I can feel the love from all of you. Thank you for all your kind words, prayers and encouragement. God is using you all to get me through. I think of you all and pray for you and your children. Hugs to all!
- I guess I should clarify my story. Please offer guidance. I'm going crazy. My son is angry mostly at my husband, his father for things that he said happened as a teenager. My husband says it was basic parenting and mostly it was. My husband does...
- I live in a rather small town and many of the people I work with know my es from church, sports, etc. Several of them have him as a friend on facebook. I just left a meeting and I feel like breaking down and crying. I could hardly contain myself...
- I was thankful to have a short conversation with my son last Friday. I didn't bring up any problems but I could tell he was hesitant. I want to call him again but I know if I try to do too much, he might run further. I want to send him something...
- I've been still completing my son's college financial aid and scholarship forms so I decided today to call him. It rang and rang but then he answered. I was surprised. I ask him about a form and we had a short conversation and it was a little...