CHRISTIAN PARENTS of ESTRANGED ADULT CHILDREN Community Group
Estrangement makes it difficult to talk about with family, friends, neighbors and church members. Christians are NOT immune to broken families. Talk about your experiences with those who know how you feel and get positive support through your Christian faith...."In these last days difficult times will come, for men will be lovers of self...disobedient to parents,...
My older son that I do see and help out with money, groceries, etc. posted on my es's facebook telling him how he doesn't blame him for not wanting to be around us. He said I had a mental problem and how he hates my husband, as much as we have done for both of them. So I was so upset I posted that he shouldn't be posting this and I have helped him and he doesn't need to be telling my es this. I said why are my sons ganging up on me. I shouldn't have said that but that is what I felt. My es sent me a blazing email saying how bad I was. He doesn't even like his half-brother. I guess now since my other son is on his side, they can be friends. My es said I will never see you until you leave dad. I have sent him a private message telling him that the marriage comes before the children. I have told him straight that I'm tired of it all. My husband is devastated. He helped my older son a lot.
Soverysad....please don't take this the wrong way, but I find it so incredible that your sons would say those things knowing you would see them....so please confirm that those were their actual words? I guess it is just so hard to wrap my mind around this.
(P.S. Have you had enough FacEbook/ aka Slapbook now? For your own sanity, are you ready to keep off of it? I care too much about you. This is doing your mental or spiritual health no good at all!)
((((((((HUGS))))))))))
I think some of our EC (including our ED) have to go through some hard times themselves before they learn. The prodigal son did!
Where exactly does a GF of someones son feel so entitled as to email his mother chastizing the mothers actions??? I am apalled at how some of these so called adults feel they can treat other people. She has no right to do or say anything to the mother of her BF except be civil considerate and respectful.
You did good SVSmom
AllK
such unrest. When things are not done God's way that is the result. Estrangement is not God's way.
God be with you. May He give you strength and peace.