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- Today was my birthday. My husband sent the children an invitation to meet at a restaurant and eat for my birthday. Heard nothing from es. I kept looking at the phone, hoping I would get a call. I got a short call from him for mother's day but...
- ES has responded to my request to meet and says I'm not seeing you if my father is around. My DH says he is tired of apologizing and will not keep on trying to meet the demands of our es and his children. He says whatever he does is not good enough,...
- I can't believe that in just a few days it will be a year since I've seen my es. I know it has been a lot longer, even many years for many of you. My heart goes out to all of you. The pain is still just as great today as it was when it first...
- I send es an email to tell him happy birthday and he tells me that it's too bad we can't be together and it's up to us. DH and I have apologized for all what he has told us he's upset about from his teen years. DH says he's not going to keep...
- Today is es 21st birthday. His first since the estrangement. He's only an hour and a half away and I can even see him. I can't stop crying. I try to give it all to the Lord but I just feel like I can't go on. This is so hard. The pain is...
- Feeling down. ES birthday is coming up. First one since the estrangement ten months ago. No cake, no party, no gifts. It's going to be a hard day.
- There was so much pain for me surrounding this estrangement and not being able to go to es' wedding that I had to go on anti-depressants. My doctor has two young adult children and has been understanding. I didn't want to take pills but I was going...
- One of our es' friends called Saturday night. He had dialed our number by mistake instead of our son's cell number. It's almost like the devil knew what to do to get me upset before I went to bed. I know my son is married now but it is so sad that...
- We hear es is getting married this weekend even though he tells me he changed the date so we wouldn't know when it is. He didn't want me and his father to show up. He said if I wanted to come I could get a ride with someone that is going but not to...
- My older son gave me a beautiful ornament for Mother's Day. It was only the second gift he has ever bought me in all these years. I believe he was trying to make things right between us. I will treasure it. My other es never even sent me a text...
- I believe this was addressed here before. I don't know if my son is involved but I'm afraid he may be involved with this or something like it. From what I have been reading some of the things they say sound just like what our son has said to us in...
- Another "concerned friend" has sent me pictures of a wedding shower that I was not invited to. My stepdaughters helped give it and they are just loving that I didn't get to go. Sometimes I wonder if people are really being concerned or they are...
- I got an email from the mother of one of my son's friends at college asking if we are going to a dinner on campus this weekend. So I had to offer somewhat of an explanation of why we were not invited. I didn't go into all the horrible details. She...
- Now my older son who I was seeing and helping out some financially has sided up with es and cut me off. Why would older son cut off someone who is helping him? He was just using me and I was letting him. I just feel horrible. I guess even though...
- Received email today from es saying since you have chosen dad over me I will not be around you any more. Around me? I haven't seen him in seven months and he only ocassionally answers an email. And he blasted me for blocking his gf's nasty...