AlyLynKel

So it's now been 8 1/2 months since the split with the stbx. We are both still trying to find ways to finance a divorce but in our hearts it's already been completed. There is nothing there anymore....

Because of my stbx.... I am finding myself in ahard position again. Now my cellphone is cut off because of his wanting to split. Sohe didn't pay the amount he said he was going to because he "didn't...

I have been blessed! My job's annual review came up for me and they allotted me a generous raise. This plus the fact that my stbx is off my insurance ensures a $200 bump in each paycheck. I'm a...

It's been a long time since I've been active on this site. I thought I was okay and that I had received all the support I needed from these amazing people here... but God was I wrong. I've gotten...

Well.... apartment hunting is over. I am successfully moved into my new place with the kitty. I enjoy it somewhat, but there are moments where I'm lonely with no one to talk to. I know that will be...

I have come to face several notions. One is that it is 110% completely and utterly over with the stbx husband. He told me out right that he is okay with the idea of me with another man. He does not...

Sometimes the loneliness is overwhelming. I have been separated for close to two months, living with my sister in an apartment full of women and still there are moments where I feel so profoundly...

Over the weekend I was coerced into going to visit my stbx... and spent a little under two hours in his presence. It was mostly enjoyable and he bought me gifts..... which made me break down and...

This is what I have to keep reminding myself. It's like a cycle where I go through periods where I don't think about him at all... which scares me. I'm fully regretting that I married him only...

So it's been almost a month since I moved in with my sister. I officially got all my things moved out of the house he and I shared and into a storage unit. I couldn't believe it. 98% of my life could...

My soon to be ex-husband was contacted by my older sister yesterday because OTHER people were contacting her through social media, telling her he had cheated on me. With his brother's girlfriend. I...

It seems like everything is coming to a head. "DH" and I haven't been at each other's throats during this time before we separate but it seems like everything is about to pop off. We are staying...

My "DH" has decided we no longer belong married. He told me that between our vastly different personalities, the financial strain we are under and a plethora of other reasons we were just not...

As if I weren't in over my head as far as the whole TTC stress goes, now I can heap bills, bills, bills on top of all that! I read around on here and try and pick up money saving tips and just fail...

Incredibly ironic. It seems like everywhere around me women are popping up with uber cute baby bellies and I'm just over here like hey look at what I did with this yarn... >_>All around me at work...