People Who Can't Stay Out Of It!
My soon to be ex-husband was contacted by my older sister yesterday because OTHER people were contacting her through social media, telling her he had cheated on me. With his brother's girlfriend. I was sent at least a good 2 dozen text messages, forwarded by this other person that are full of complete and utter nonsense. I have talked to both my future ex and the girl he's accused with and I have no reason to believe there was any infedelity of any kind. Even if there was, what does it matter now? We've agreed to end the relationship and dissolve the marriage. We have come to an understanding and are trying our best to make sure this thing goes as smoothly as it can with the horrible feelings that accompany it.
So my question is this: if he and I are able to communicate, and we're still living together until all our arrangements are made, and we aren't cutting each other down or being ugly.... why can't other people stay out of it?
Turns out this whole barrage of bs came from his distant cousin's baby mama. We took them both in to help them out when they moved to our area and she disliked not being the only girl in MY house. T_T idiot. So now..... six months after we've gotten them out of the house, she's putting this nastiness out there to interfere with my job and his and our already precarious relationship. You have your relationship. You have your children. You have your life. Why stick your nose into mine and try to ruin the last semblence of dignity we have toward each other? It makes no sense to me.
So my question is this: if he and I are able to communicate, and we're still living together until all our arrangements are made, and we aren't cutting each other down or being ugly.... why can't other people stay out of it?
Turns out this whole barrage of bs came from his distant cousin's baby mama. We took them both in to help them out when they moved to our area and she disliked not being the only girl in MY house. T_T idiot. So now..... six months after we've gotten them out of the house, she's putting this nastiness out there to interfere with my job and his and our already precarious relationship. You have your relationship. You have your children. You have your life. Why stick your nose into mine and try to ruin the last semblence of dignity we have toward each other? It makes no sense to me.
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Because ALOT of ppl don\'t bother to grow up or act any different/more mature than they did in high school. I\'ve been reading your journal entries, just too distracted with my own drama to comment, but I try to comment on all entries, so I\'m working on it. Anyways, because of the unnecessary drama in my life, I have come to the conclusion that the majority of ppl don\'t bother to mature past the age of 16-18. They can be trashy drug addicts or high level exec\'s with awesome careers, for whatever reason, they have this social retardedness that prevents them from growing up in all areas of their life. They like to spread gossip, be involved in cliques, kick the weaker person when they are down, basically just stir up drama. I am proud of how you and your soon to be ex are handling this, don\'t let other ppl bring you down or suck you into their vortex of immature drama.
It seems like things went from hopeful to worse in my life. Hopeful for a baby and now a complete 180 in the opposite direction.