Stressed Out.

It seems like everything is coming to a head. "DH" and I haven't been at each other's throats during this time before we separate but it seems like everything is about to pop off. We are staying together in the house to fulfil our lease until the middle of next month, we already have most of the physical belongings and the bills separated but there are still some precautions I am still trying to take. Like I wrote an agreement on what he's going to pay each month for what bills, the fact that he is taking sole responsibility for the truck that is in both of our names and that he will leave my 401k alone... I want him to look over it with me and then come up to the credit union I work at and get it notarized so that he's protected from me being a bloodsucker and I know he won't negate on anything we agreed on.
I don't know if that's going to work. He got angry when I told him I had written it up... when he had already agreed to signing. He's frustrated that he won't be able to make it, and I know that and I also know that he's trying to make me feel guilty. But all I feel is that he's a big child and I'm glad that I'm moving toward divorce. Yes, I'd still like to consider him a friend after this whole ordeal is over, but I am very ready to get the hell out! I'm frustrated and I feel trapped but our money is so non-existant that I have to bide my time and wait so that we can skip out on utilities next month and have the money for him to move and me to move too.
I already hate this and it hasn't even gotten started yet.