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- Spent weekend apartWife stayed at parentsShe got back round 5 sunSaid she was going to put advice from mc into place and not take about heavy stuffThen said she talked to her parents a lot this weekendThen said she can't tell me what they (parents...
- as of sunday evening, i was pretty done with EVERYTHING..... for the last few weeks.... i was done.... i shut down...i couldn't even look at her when i spoke to her. i i didn't care what she did, or had to say.... i wasn't prepared to listen...
- A RANT!dday was dec 19 , 2014..... WW 8 affairs within 15 monthsDuring our evening talk Friday, FWW said that one of the things she got from the affairs was "having expectations met"She'd search, find ,plan, hookupExpectations were metShe also...
- these last few weeks or months, I feel that I have been supporting my FWW as she has been suffering from bought of depression, anxiety, shame , guilt and emotion distress. Trying to support her, it turned out, helped me...i felt good that i was...
- This day is getting better and betterAfter nc since Jan 2 2015AP#7 just contacted my wife via Facebook today around 4She told me as soon as I got homeI'm trying very hard to hold back some very bad thoughts and feelings right nowLike replying from...
- BS hereFWS doing the work...but is it the right work?will be 2 years in DEC for dday. she confessed and told me everything over 48 hrs8 men in 15 monthsbeen a hell of a trip so far for both of us.she's been digging ...alot....really trying to figure...
- FWS doing the work...but is it the right work?will be 2 years in DEC for dday. she confessed and told me everything over 48 hrs8 men in 15 monthsbeen a hell of a trip so far for both of us.she's been digging ...alot....really trying to figure out...
- BS hereIs it normal for the WS to fall into state of depression in 2nd year of R? My therapist, and our MC both said that they are not surprised at the mental, emotional and physical state of my wife. We are 19 months past DDay.Her physical and...
- Is it normal for the WS to fall into state of depression in 2nd year of R?My therapist, and our MC both said that they are not surprised at the mental, emotional and physical state of my wife. We are 19 months past DDay.Her physical and emotional...
- DD was Dec 2014...... long journey for both of usin Feb, i noticed that my FWW seemed to be down...tired all the time, fatigued, irritable....she quit work at end of April so she could be w ours kids thru the summer. She said she felt she owed...
- the last week had some great insight for me.on the topic of triggers, i categorized them into one of the following subsets;dates/eventslocationsphysical resemblencesassociationsdates/events is pretty straightforward. locations is pretty self...
- how do you use "The 5 Love Languages"?how do you use “The 5 Love Languages”?I have the book at home somewhere, but can’t find it, however my wife and I did the quick online test and i scored10Words of Affirmation ( no surprise on that as the...
- last few months have been tough for both of us.... lots of stress, emotions, confusion, fear of vulnerability.....2 nights ago I told FWW...”hey...let’s just start over...right now...lets not be the people we used to be...lets not keep doing the...
- over a year and a half from dday.... been working on Rbut I'm very confused today, and last evening after talking with WW'for the last year and change, all the therapy I've gone to stressed to me, that WW affairs and choices and nothing to do with ...
- has anyone used Energy Psychology , Acupressure/Meridian therapy The therapist I started to see in Aug 2015 for EMDR using Meridian Tapping Techniques..... EFT Emotional Freedom Technique, TFT Thought Field Therapy....other names as...